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ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
There is nothing for them to be forgiven for, they did what they did.

Nothing is going to change that.
Nothing is going to stop them from doing it again.



I'll forgive myself for loving such a person and move on and get away from them.
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@ToLivePeacefully jeez you’re sensitive
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
@Ferise1 Sorry about that.
lissah · 36-40, F
@Ferise1 sensitive? No he is smart.

hartfire · 61-69
It would depend on whether he was was in love with his mistress and she felt the same.
I'd give them my blessing to start a new life together.
It'd be the easiest way I could finally get free.

However, my husband has never been sexually attractive to other women.
He's had plenty of women friends, and still has a few whom I like very much. They all always friend-zoned him.

These days, at almost 80, he shows no sexual interest, except perhaps watching some beautiful and talented character in a film or TV series.
It's a relief from the years of jutting skinny bones, bad breath, forgetfulness and clumsiness.

I do love him despite all that. He's been my best friend for over 40 years.
I did, but it took a lot of time to get to a place of forgiveness. I still am not sure I made the right choice.
lissah · 36-40, F
Nope she could have him
lissah · 36-40, F
@MellyMel22 exactly
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
@lissah you won't have to worry about that. 😘
lissah · 36-40, F
@MrSmooTh 😘 i wouldn't share you for nothing in the world
Bang5luts · M
I always forgive. Forgiving (for me) isn't about the other person really. It's about my own sanity and piece of mind. That didn't mean I'll take them back
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@Bang5luts you learned your lesson well🙄
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Its happened. I did forgive her. So she did it over and over again thinking it was easy to get away with.
I did but i shouldnt have. He just did it again.
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
I couldn’t and that is why I am divorced
Forgive, yes. Forget, no.
It would end our relationship, but not our friendship.
Ynotisay · M
No. One time...goodbye. Cheating isn't only a sign of character it's a sign of a poor relationship. And who would want that?
rhouse · 56-60, M
Yes but I would ask her to tell me all about it in detail.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@rhouse That's a bad idea.
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Bruja · F
@Allelse HE MADE ME FEEL LIKE I MATTERED!!!
4meAndyou · F
I have forgiven TWO cheating ex-spouses. Forgiving them does NOT mean staying married to them.
RohitKhanna · 41-45, M
@4meAndyou 🤣so basically you forgive and move on
4meAndyou · F
@RohitKhanna You've got that a little bit backwards. I move on, first. Then it takes me about 20 years to forgive them...🤣🤣🤣
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I don’t know. I’d have to hear the circumstances.
robbie2499 · 61-69, F
I believe most everything can be forgiven once.
AndysAttic · 56-60, M
At poker or darts?
Magenta · F
IDK, I'd have to actually be in the situation to know.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Nope. I'd rather be alone.
TexChik · F
I could never be in love with someone I did not trust. If he violated that, I would never forgive him.
tenente · 36-40, M
If your spouse confesses to cheating, would you forgive them?

Yes, I will forgive them and wish them well as we go our separate ways.

My life is too short to hold on to anger and resentment
Forgiven.
What else one can do in such matters.
RohitKhanna · 41-45, M
yes if it was only sexual and not emotional
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hunkalove · 70-79, M
I don't think cheating is very important.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Very likely to forgive. There would have to be other reasons on top of that. Like theft.
meJess · F
I would reshuffle the cards
YoMomma ·
Supposedly already did.. it’s iffy
Katie01 · F
There's nothing to forgive
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SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Hell to the nah, nah, nahhh.
exexec · 70-79, C
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
All the women will say no🙄

 
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