Letting go of the past… when the past won’t let go of you Posted a new photo on social media....

I have to agree with you here except i believe it happens both ways. Women have the same problems after a break up. Especially if it was their actions to cause the split. No relationship is perfect and in these days of internet access and such, it seems like it's too easy to see how easy it is to move on to greener pastures even though those pastures haven't proven to be any better. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes but mostly it seems we never do.

Allelse · 36-40, M

We're creatures of time, our past our foundations. Even if you come to terms with it, you'll still find yourself waking up crying some mornings. Maybe we have to come to terms with that too, and be alright with that.

One good thing to remember when you go out into the wild, is that you will fall over and you will get hurt. You can come to terms with that, but the scars still hurt, years after they've healed. I've got one on my left index finger from when an oyster split the skin, and just the other day, 5 years later, the skin pulled the wrong way and it didn't ache. It hurt. Only the pain wasn't like it was the day it happened, it was just different.

And people? People are the worst.

AspectsOfSelf · F

Men sometimes struggle to understand what they have before they lose it. Often realizing it once the relationship has ended, and then they try to make things right while we have already decided what's best for us.
Second chances are granted when behavior has changed.

Keep putting yourself first!

masterofyou · 70-79, M

I don't know because I've been there too. It's just so hard to let go of everything you have been through.....

FreestyleArt · 36-40, M

The only problem for me I don't trust anyone anymore. That's a huge part of my past. I wish I can their hearts and mind so I don't have to be isolated all the time, instead of wasting my time to know them

Massageman · 70-79, M

Thank you. So true.

DanielsASJ · 36-40, M

It takes time and courage to move forward. But once step taken in forward direction, one should not look back, man or woman. Looking back will create a one sided relationship where one person will feel the burden of carrying relationship without his/her will.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

To quote a famous woman, because:

"Don't it always seem to go
That you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone?"

Northwest · M

you are actually happier. Be glad and move on. Men, or women, are not to take advice in the middle of it.

Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M

He's your ex for good reasons. Block and move on. You deserve much better.

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

Actions always speak louder than words in relationships. If his words have always been incongruent with his actions you have your answer.

LadyGrace ·

Because some men are not in love. They just miss the control.

caccoon · 36-40

It's the push and pull of an avoidant man. He needs therapy

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4meAndyou · F

He saw your photo, said to himself, "Wow! She looks pretty good? I had that. Let's see if she's dumb enough to take me back!" 🤣🤣🤣

Livingwell · 61-69, M

People always want what they can't have. 🤷🏻‍♂

masterofyou · 70-79, M

You wouldn't have posted this if you didn't care just a little....

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

We don’t know what we got till it’s gone, but our love usually stays for a long time