Letting go of the past… when the past won’t let go of you

Posted a new photo on social media. Feeling good and ready to start over. And then the next morning I get this email from an ex. Why do men fight harder to try to win you back after the relationship is over? Not when you are actually still in it. When you yourself still care and want to fix things. No, they think that it’s smart to try after your love is already fading away and when you accept there’s no changing his poor behaviours. After you realize that you deserve better and that you are actually happier with out them. Some advice for men. If you really do love her and don’t want to lose her. Put in the effort while she still cares to build a life with you, because once she stops caring.. there’s no fixing it.

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FreestyleArt · 36-40, M

The only problem for me I don't trust anyone anymore. That's a huge part of my past. I wish I can their hearts and mind so I don't have to be isolated all the time, instead of wasting my time to know them

DayDreamer3 · 36-40, F

@FreestyleArt Trust is earned. We shouldn’t be expected to give anyone our full trust until they prove they are trustworthy. I understand. I have a hard time trusting others too. Something that I heard once that resonated with me. “ you don’t need to learn how to trust. You need to learn where to put your trust.”