Do good men exists , how to identify them....

Also, and this must be emphasized, being a good person and being a good partner can be two different things, though related.

Good people can still be horrible partners. Horrible people can be good partners(sometimes). It depends on your own goals and conceptualization of the relationship and you yourself. It would be too ideal and naive to think bad people don't have good relationships.

But generally good people( those capable of guilt and growth and selflessness) are less likely to hurt you beyond repair, statistically speaking. So find good people first and then experience will show the rest. And accept that we cannot truly control the future.

Sometimes things just don't work out. But every experience has some value to be harvested and sharpened for wisdom.

Check how they deal with others, like waiters and waitresses)

Some men will tell you what they can do for you. Some men will want to know what you can do for them.. You want to seek the kind of man who wants to talk over with you what you can both do with your lives together..😷

Good men might appear weak to you. Truly open with their feelings but not overly emotional, not complaining about his life or the world, not following the latest social virtue trends, maybe a boring stable job, not trying to change the world, drink boring coffee, have boring friends, not saving anyone.... look for them. All of it points to a man who is comfortable with who he is and not trying to prove he is something great or better than others. He will be real with you, because he does not necessarily care what you want him to be. He is comfortable being who he is.

Try fasting.. fasting from men lol.. i think you're not in a good place.. or a place where "good men" in your preferences, exist.. go for a year without observing, flirting or socialising with men on a deeper level.. it might clear some clouds off your system about men.. i think you're stucked in an unhealthy circle and cycle..it doesn't matter if you've met a thousand men, if you are stucked, you are stacked meeting the same type.. you need a detox lol before knowing what's good and bad..

If you wish to know a man, don't date him or show interest in dating him.

They are biologically driven to mirror your preferences. A man who cares for what you care about simply to fulfill his romantic goals is not his true self.

Know what they prioritize.


I generally think, regardless of gender, people whose life purpose is modern romance are often of weak characters and minds. We are all both good and bad, but we will be swayed easier to match greedy interests when we too are guided by selfishness above all else. And so we serve more evil.

Here is something most people won't tell you, and you may believe otherwise until it is too late.

We all have roles to play in life, and all relationships are negotiations of a sort.

Men are expendable. We always have been. We do the dangerous jobs. We fight the wars. We survive and build our wealth. The better we do the more market value we have in dating. A forty year old man who has been successful can marry a younger woman and have a stable family.

Women have their most value when young. Most women waste their youth pursuing things that don't increase their value. A forty year old woman is done having kids or if possible she may have one high risk pregnancy. She will watch her coworker forty year old men date younger women, because they can. Her time might have been better spent securing a relationship in her younger years, because at this point her dating life will consist of getting run through by younger guys that don't really want a relationship.

Ofcourse they do. Just because the men in your group are bad it doesn’t mean they all are.

That would be as foolish as me saying are all women bad if the ones I knew were. You can’t make those assumptions based on such a small group.

@sahi81 I applaud and encourage you in your efforts to gain understanding about yourself and others and your interactions, and how you can better respect yourself and make healthy decisions. This kind of reflection and applying insights is what the world needs. Thank you.

Sounds like you have a distrust of men in general. Never a good start to any relationship unfortunately

You have to look at their tag or the serial number on their foot; refer to manufacturer's instructions regarding "good" and other men.

Be who you want to attract.

not in India 😂

will have show your interest in them first probably. often quiet shy boring,dont have a outgoing personality

You don't have any good men in Bangladesh?

I exist but I'm taken by miss Lady Nebula

You are incredibly whiny and self entitled

No good men exist.are you happy to know it

Inferiors? That says it all.