Do good men exists , how to identify them....

Most men i come across seem to not treat women/animals/inferiors good . They think they r only important and all others r there to serve and sacrifice for them.

Some men seem nice but idk how to identify if they r pretending or not. Many men pretend to be good and support women even when they don't have good intentions.

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

Here is something most people won't tell you, and you may believe otherwise until it is too late.

We all have roles to play in life, and all relationships are negotiations of a sort.

Men are expendable. We always have been. We do the dangerous jobs. We fight the wars. We survive and build our wealth. The better we do the more market value we have in dating. A forty year old man who has been successful can marry a younger woman and have a stable family.

Women have their most value when young. Most women waste their youth pursuing things that don't increase their value. A forty year old woman is done having kids or if possible she may have one high risk pregnancy. She will watch her coworker forty year old men date younger women, because they can. Her time might have been better spent securing a relationship in her younger years, because at this point her dating life will consist of getting run through by younger guys that don't really want a relationship.