Do good men exists , how to identify them....

@mindless Yes. And similarly, look for how they treat others who are in other service positions, like hostesses, bussers, check out clerks, and doormen.

@MPath37 even strangers. One guy i know used to bully or hurt even strangers if it benefitted him ( not for self-defense), his reason was he was frustrated, i forgave him thinking it was his one time behaviour but i think he is that way as whole personality. But he used to be overly-nice too. He used to treat his close ones ok i think, idk much.


He abused and betrayed me. He and also was friends and supportive towards cheater type men who bully girls, he used to blame girls for the men's cheater type behaviour

@sahi81 Yes, even strangers. When someone is unlikely to see someone again, and thus can think there won't be any consequences, seeing how they treat strangers can be an excellent way of gauging character.

@sahi81 I see where you are coming from. I am in the US. We have some people like that but they tend to come from demographic groups with IQ scores of about 80 and tend to die young at the hands of similarly stupid people.

Western civilization has a code of conduct, not universally followed, called chivalry. Chivalry teaches that men can only be good men if they are capable of violence, and that violence is used to protect those in weaker positions. The root word, Chival, is French for horse. In those days, a man on horseback could kill pretty much anyone. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.

@IronHamster He was from village area actually, he now living in highly developed city area. i think violence is not good... maybe in olden days it was, but now a days it's not a good option to solve problems. I heard many people killed each other in western countries due to "misunderstandings/miscommunication" in language or culture.

@sahi81 It depends, but generally western countries are relatively safe. In western countries, women complain because they should feel safe walking scantily clad through city alleys. There is some craziness to that. I am armed and I don't even feel safe walking through city alleys. In liberal areas, crime tends to be so high it is often unreported. Murders must be reported, though, and there are liberal cities where one's odds of survival are less than some war zones, yet in conservative gun carrying communities you are safer than being in Belgium.