Do good men exists , how to identify them....

Most men i come across seem to not treat women/animals/inferiors good . They think they r only important and all others r there to serve and sacrifice for them.

Some men seem nice but idk how to identify if they r pretending or not. Many men pretend to be good and support women even when they don't have good intentions.

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Miram · 31-35, F

Also, and this must be emphasized, being a good person and being a good partner can be two different things, though related.

Good people can still be horrible partners. Horrible people can be good partners(sometimes). It depends on your own goals and conceptualization of the relationship and you yourself. It would be too ideal and naive to think bad people don't have good relationships.

But generally good people( those capable of guilt and growth and selflessness) are less likely to hurt you beyond repair, statistically speaking. So find good people first and then experience will show the rest. And accept that we cannot truly control the future.

Sometimes things just don't work out. But every experience has some value to be harvested and sharpened for wisdom.