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HijabaDabbaDoo · F
Brown and handsome?
I'm listening.
Jk. I'm not. Shit like this has more red flags than China.
I'm listening.
Jk. I'm not. Shit like this has more red flags than China.
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nahright09 · 41-45, M
HijabaDabbaDoo · F
@nahright09 Not to brag but *lists 60 reasons why I'm better than you*
nahright09 · 41-45, M
SW-User
I've been reading through all your posts. You are far too hung up on assuming the shallow aspects you possess (looks, IQ, and money) are what attracts the women you're attracted to. I suspect instead of making what is considered socially acceptable conversation, you focus on yourself and what you believe women want to hear, which comes off as bragging to the ones you're trying to impress.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SW-User @wilderflower Anyway, no hard feelings. I messaged her.
SW-User
@lookingForLostFriendHere Who did you message?
wilderflower · F
@SW-User Yeah I wonder who the victim is.
Pherick · 41-45, M
LOL Anyone who feels the need to "boast" about their IQ, doesn't have a high enough one to boast about.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Pherick I said by IQ test standards. It does't mean anything
Pherick · 41-45, M
@lookingForLostFriendHere
Yet you felt the need to mention it in your post? I think ye doth protest too much.
It does't mean anything
Yet you felt the need to mention it in your post? I think ye doth protest too much.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Pherick l mean, on paper l should be a good catch?
Well, clearly you're showing up as too clingy. And it's just your Karma. If you reject someone, then someone will similarly reject you. Have you thought about the girls you're not attracted to?
That's the same way that those girls you're attracted to feel. Get it?
Don't mind if this sounds curt, but you asked for it.
That's the same way that those girls you're attracted to feel. Get it?
Don't mind if this sounds curt, but you asked for it.
@lookingForLostFriendHere yup...I married the man I loved. 🤷
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Vivaci congrats. Did you have to look deep to find the qualities you like about him? Were you initially physically attracted to him. Be honest!
@lookingForLostFriendHere Ty! Well, I loved his wit and intelligence. I knew I could live with that all my life.
And he's extremely handsome. But that's easy to find. Lol
And he's extremely handsome. But that's easy to find. Lol
SW-User
Stop being so boastful, it's extremely off putting and not in the slightest bit attractive
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SW-User I am only saying that because I need help. I don't go around telling people this
SW-User
@lookingForLostFriendHere OK, well I sure hope you don't. I guess you hopefully will meet the right one someday
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SW-User thanks. slowly losing hope but l'll never settle
wilderflower · F
Oh I know this one. You also have a huge amount of money and if we only give you our social security number along with our bank account information you’ll share your wealth.
wilderflower · F
@lookingForLostFriendHere I have my reasons. None of your business.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
wilderflower · F
@lookingForLostFriendHere I’m not mean. That’s your perspective.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Diagnosis: You spend too much time bragging about how you wish you were online.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul this is a serious issue
4meAndyou · F
If you really do have a 160 IQ you will be able to figure this out. But I'll give you a clue. You want what you can't have, and don't want what is readily available.
https://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2016/02/6-reasons-why-we-always-want-the-people-we-cant-have/
https://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2016/02/6-reasons-why-we-always-want-the-people-we-cant-have/
4meAndyou · F
@lookingForLostFriendHere Yes.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@4meAndyou I think he's looking for confirmation that he's handsome and smart. Such things are in the eyes of the beholder.
4meAndyou · F
@Heartlander We all want to be smart. Especially me! 😂 But beauty is in the eye of the beholder...always. A really handsome looking man can open his mouth, horrible things come out, and then he might as well be Frankenstein...😂
Okay here's my brutal honesty. Stop treating them like gatekeepers to the pussy and try to be friends first. If you need to get laid go to the bar. If you're looking for a partner it usually takes time. Just because you're rich doesn't mean there's anything special about you. Unless you're looking for a woman who wants that kind of support. But also don't expect every woman to look like a porn star.
Serpico · 51-55, M
If I may... so you say the women you find attractive don't prefer you.
Time for self reflection... meaning... how do you act different around the women you are attracted to? Clear you display a different persona when around women you are drawn to and if that is the case assess what you do differently. One would figure you would be either anxious, or tense, or trying too hard to impress which can come off poorly, or coming off too needy. Assess your actions and just be yourself.
Also... money and intellect are not always the gold standard when dating. Your social "game" may be lacking. Having a solid social confidence is key to attracting the ones you prefer.
Time for self reflection... meaning... how do you act different around the women you are attracted to? Clear you display a different persona when around women you are drawn to and if that is the case assess what you do differently. One would figure you would be either anxious, or tense, or trying too hard to impress which can come off poorly, or coming off too needy. Assess your actions and just be yourself.
Also... money and intellect are not always the gold standard when dating. Your social "game" may be lacking. Having a solid social confidence is key to attracting the ones you prefer.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Serpico thank you. Will take notes
Miram · 31-35, F
Are you from India?
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@MiramActually I didn't know about the Amazigh until today. Thank you for telling me. Seems like an interesting culture
Actually most North Africans are a little embarrassed of Sub-Saharan Africa. Maybe its because of the numerous problems we face compared to up-North.
Actually most North Africans are a little embarrassed of Sub-Saharan Africa. Maybe its because of the numerous problems we face compared to up-North.
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere
I love Africa! It is home. The Amazigh tribes that live in isolation from the cities don't even believe in political boundaries. Fundamentally, north africa is your home too and yours is mine 🤪
But my passport disproves 😬
I love Africa! It is home. The Amazigh tribes that live in isolation from the cities don't even believe in political boundaries. Fundamentally, north africa is your home too and yours is mine 🤪
But my passport disproves 😬
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere
No, it is not because of the problems. Discrimination does exist, the leftovers of colonial powers, divide and conquer. Also people can be shit anywhere due to their own problems.
No, it is not because of the problems. Discrimination does exist, the leftovers of colonial powers, divide and conquer. Also people can be shit anywhere due to their own problems.
Selah ·
Youre a serial killer or rapist. Sorry.
wilderflower · F
@Selah Yep.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
I'm extreeeeeeeeeeemely intelligent too. I tell all the girls how intelligent I am as soon as I met them.
SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst You've even got "Brain" in your user name! 😃
You can be my assistant
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Dewms ?
@lookingForLostFriendHere you are a somewhat qualified for the job 😊
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Dewms stop teasing, will you
Success · 26-30, F
Smart people are often socially and sexually clueless. I'm average smart (102) yet very active in those areas. I'm also well on my way to being quite rich despite my not being a brown and handsome guy.
Success · 26-30, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere I was one of the few that didn't accuse you of that. But really, I do get lots of sex with the best looking imaginable.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Success Telling a person who has been girlfriend-less for years that you are very 'socially active' is kinda the same thing as bragging 😅
do you think its because you look nice? I mean all the attention you get
do you think its because you look nice? I mean all the attention you get
Success · 26-30, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere I'm considered pretty with a star-like quality. It also helps that I'm a warm and unashamed nudist with a great smile.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
You are an idiot.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@midnightsun ?
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
As an armchair psychologist, I'd say you are either afraid of commitment, or afraid of getting hurt, and you consciously or subconsciously sabotage every possible relationship before it even starts.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@GJOFJ3 the girls I wanna commit to don't feel the say. Maybe I should lower my standards?
SW-User
your entire post screams inferiority complex
SW-User
@lookingForLostFriendHere Hispanic? I’m Indian lmao
Also idk your username from EP but nice to see you I guess?
Also idk your username from EP but nice to see you I guess?
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SW-User Really. You told me you were latina.
And I'm butt-hurt you don't remember the guy who tried so much to be your friend. I had a different username
And I'm butt-hurt you don't remember the guy who tried so much to be your friend. I had a different username
SW-User
@lookingForLostFriendHere what? You’re confusing me for someone else 🤷🏻♀️
MarmeeMarch · M
Brown and Handsome ? lol translation= white and covered in Cheeto dust in your mother's basement.
SW-User
Dont know enough to give my opinion. You sound like a nice man tho.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SW-User thank you
Justiceforall · M
You have to find the middle range,
SaraxKay · 26-30, F
Open up your horizons more, and I don't mean lower your standards. I mean date out of your comfort zone. You never know who you may attract! 💜
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SaraxKay l have an excellent idea of who l want. But perhaps l'm not rich enough for them?
SaraxKay · 26-30, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere Money has nothing to do with energy attraction. If there was no such thing as currency, how do attract a person? By the energy you give off. You can blend well with someone without financial means.
Yeah, you may be well off, you're fine financially on your own. But what's important is your energy and how humble you are to others.
Yeah, you may be well off, you're fine financially on your own. But what's important is your energy and how humble you are to others.
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@SaraxKay energy?
Biffed · 31-35, M
stay off craigslist
Northwest · M
You're probably not saying all these things strongly enough. Double down on it, they go crazy for that stuff.
Ishtar · 22-25, F
Try luck with guys
lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Ishtar ew!
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lookingForLostFriendHere · 36-40, M
@Stereoguy I spend like a mad-man when I find a girl I am very attracted to