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Not to brag... I'm brown and handsome. I am relatively rich by middle-income country standards. I am extremely smart (over 160 IQ) ....

and most people call me witty

The thing is I haven't had a GF in years and its not because I haven't been trying. The girls I find attractive don't like me and the ones who like me, I personally don't find them attractive

What could be my problem?????
Any tips and hints would be helpful
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Miram · 31-35, F
Are you from India?
@Miram No. I'm African actually.
JBird · F
@lookingForLostFriendHere you're black not brown
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere

I am African too, an Amazigh. I speak several African languages. What's your mother tongue?

Your ellipsis usage is why I asked you if you were Indian.
Miram · 31-35, F
@JBird Not all Africans are black skinned ☺️
@Miram Xhosa. What languages do you speak?

If you are African why would you use the image of a white girl?

What is an ellipsis?
@JBird that I am :)
JBird · F
@Miram not all Indians are brown skinned either. Brown and black are more like terms for demographic rather than actual color. I mean they are Indians who look Mongoloid but still identify themselves as brown.
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere

That is way far down south. Tamazight varieties, all arabic dialects, couple of Songhay dialects;

All the selfies I use are of me.

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQHD1fZAvmA]

Not all of us are black ☝️

This is the ellipsis ...
Miram · 31-35, F
@JBird Never made the assumption that all Indians are brown. I have been to India, Hyderabad.
JBird · F
@Miram been there too. Didn't know how I survived in a dingy tiny room for two years
@Miram you know most North Africans prefer to be called Arabic, right?
JBird · F
@lookingForLostFriendHere oh. Sorry. I thought you were from like Sudan or Nigeria. I guess you're from Egypt
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere

🤨 That is such a strange belief. You can be an Arab and an African. They aren't mutually exclusive. I can tag my Arab African friends to this post if you like.

That aside, I hope you're not insinuating that being an Amazigh and an Arab are one and the same.

@JBird That sounds little bit concerning. Was it by will?
@JBird I speak Xhosa and I'm from Egypt? Lol!
@MiramActually I didn't know about the Amazigh until today. Thank you for telling me. Seems like an interesting culture

Actually most North Africans are a little embarrassed of Sub-Saharan Africa. Maybe its because of the numerous problems we face compared to up-North.
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere

I love Africa! It is home. The Amazigh tribes that live in isolation from the cities don't even believe in political boundaries. Fundamentally, north africa is your home too and yours is mine 🤪

But my passport disproves 😬
Miram · 31-35, F
@lookingForLostFriendHere

No, it is not because of the problems. Discrimination does exist, the leftovers of colonial powers, divide and conquer. Also people can be shit anywhere due to their own problems.