Not to brag... I'm brown and handsome. I am relatively rich by middle-income country standards. I am extremely smart (over 160 IQ) ....

and most people call me witty

The thing is I haven't had a GF in years and its not because I haven't been trying. The girls I find attractive don't like me and the ones who like me, I personally don't find them attractive

What could be my problem?????
Any tips and hints would be helpful

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Vivaci

Well, clearly you're showing up as too clingy. And it's just your Karma. If you reject someone, then someone will similarly reject you. Have you thought about the girls you're not attracted to?

That's the same way that those girls you're attracted to feel. Get it?

Don't mind if this sounds curt, but you asked for it.

lookingForLostFriendHere · 31-35, M

@Vivaci so l should just settle. Is that your solution? Never!

Vivaci

@lookingForLostFriendHere There's no solution. It's a constant learning process.

You come down to earth and look at the good qualities in the girls who are interested in you. It'll make you a bit humble.

lookingForLostFriendHere · 31-35, M

@Vivaci I do. I have many girl friends who I don't find attractive and I appreciate their qualities but dating someone I don't find attractive is something I will NEVER contemplate

Did you settle? Be honest.

Vivaci

@lookingForLostFriendHere yup...I married the man I loved. 🤷

lookingForLostFriendHere · 31-35, M

@Vivaci congrats. Did you have to look deep to find the qualities you like about him? Were you initially physically attracted to him. Be honest!

Vivaci

@lookingForLostFriendHere Ty! Well, I loved his wit and intelligence. I knew I could live with that all my life.

And he's extremely handsome. But that's easy to find. Lol