Not to brag... I'm brown and handsome. I am relatively rich by middle-income country standards. I am extremely smart (over 160 IQ) ....

@SW-User l only mentioned my qualities to give a full picture of my struggles so people could advice. In RL I never mention that. But thankd for trying

@lookingForLostFriendHere Most people don't do that, or at least they don't do it the way you have here. I also wasn't just talking about this one question of yours. I was talking about all the questions and responses you've posted today. You are way too hung up on looks. You appear to be "interviewing" a lot of women here. The ones you find attractive, you start hitting on immediately, while the ones you don't, you're very dismissive of.

@SW-User Spot on analysis.

@wilderflower how dare you jaded, how dare you after being so dismissive of me.

@lookingForLostFriendHere She gave an excellent summary of what you are. What you should do is engage in conversations on threads instead of using this charade to interview women.

@lookingForLostFriendHere You were completely dismissive of the majority of what I stated in my first response, explaining why women aren't interested. Instead you focused solely on the small mention of IQ, etc. THAT is a huge tell of the problem. You focus on the wrong things during a conversation.

@SW-User We’re seeing why he’s having trouble with women.

@wilderflower Yep. Lol.

@SW-User What. You are taking her side? She is mean. Did you read my earlier conversation with her?

@lookingForLostFriendHere
Yes, I read the exchange. It's a good example of what I'm talking about. You are blatantly hitting on her. When you don't receive the response you want, you become the victim i.e., "she's being mean to me."

You aren't listening to what a woman is saying. You want what you want and you completely misinterpret the other side of the conversation. Unless you do some serious work on yourself, do some soul searching, and try to show you actually listen and care about what the other person is saying, you'll always wind up frustrated and lonely. You need to work on your social skills.

@SW-User Did you see how he stopped being 'chatty' with me after I refused to give him information?

@wilderflower Yes. There's a serious disconnect going on. He reminds me of a user who used to be here. Since he mentioned he was here before, I suspect it's him.

@SW-User It probably is.

@SW-User @wilderflower you guys realize I can see this, right?

@lookingForLostFriendHere Yeah we do and maybe it'll help you.

@lookingForLostFriendHere Of course. I'm giving you some "tough love." If you truly want to find a woman you feel is a good match, you need to think about your words and actions, and how they appear to other people.

@SW-User @wilderflower Anyway, no hard feelings. I messaged her.

@lookingForLostFriendHere Who did you message?

@SW-User Yeah I wonder who the victim is.