How long does it take you to forgive someone that

it honestly really depends. it depends on the situation, how much investment was involved and how it happened. I can be forgiving if it's somethind simple. we as humans make mistakes that we didn't realize would actually hurt the other person. as humans, we can be ignorant and stupid and not know it. yet, apology accepted. but if it comes to the light as something seems "pre-meditated"? apology not accepted.

I reached out to tell the last person who hurt me, I forgave him. I apologized for some things on my part that were wrong, but nowhere as bad as his deception. I wanted to be the bigger person to keep it fair on both ends. I didn't neccesarily expect a response, but not getting one made me resent I ever did. I should've kept it in my heart. Otherwise, I've found a sense of peace that doesn't allow me to allow others to get to me & I'm also very mindful of who I allow in my life.

Relatively speaking, I tend to forgive sooner rather than later. I can forgive quite quickly, but that doesn’t mean I forget, or want to continue any sort of relationship with that person. It depends on the person, and what they did.

Pain that deep may never heal because pieces of your heart and soul are destroyed, you just have to move on and never look back

Forgiving someone isn't for them, it is for me. When I forgive someone who has wronged me, it is I who sleeps better, doesn't keep gnawing at the injustice done to me. I forgive because as long as I don't that rot is getting rent free space in my head. How long it takes me to realize it depends, once I realize and know that it is bothering me way more than the other person, I let it go. Sometimes, it is days, sometimes it is weeks or months, or years.

A really fun fact about me is that I’ve never forgiven anyone for anything 😍💅

I've forgiven people without an apology. I had just began to understand them and why they did what they did. If I feel wronged I can't forgive.

Almost nothing can heal those scars. I've never had a single individual make amends to me. That being said I still do miss some of those people and wish I could have them back. Any person who has ever done me wrong in such a devastating manner felt any sense of guilt, atleast none that I was made aware of. Sure there is the slim possibility I might forgive them, but unless I see true remorse and guilt in their eyes, I choose to shun them from here on out.

That is entirely up to them and what they say or do about it

i pretend it never happened but stay away

Context , person and relationship with them all play a part in the ‘duration’

Example :

If someone hurt person X with hurtful comments in public (as in a wedding or a big party) , chances are X will never forgive that person.

One to one hurts … take multiple years or decades even … ..

Not a pleasant experience at all.

Hope you are ok and no one has offended me deeply.

12 to 20 years

15 minutes

I dont 🤷🏽‍♀

personally it could be a while as i can take things personally and i hold grudges ,as if my dad was still around could tell you [destinycalling]

Depends if they want to be forgiven and care or not.
As for time it varies.
And if they don't care I just stay away from them and then from me.

I don't forgive people that hurt me deeply. I let them drift out of my life or I force them out

So far, all the people who have committed major treason have been excised.

Never

I can forgive but I will not forget