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Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Forgiving someone isn't for them, it is for me. When I forgive someone who has wronged me, it is I who sleeps better, doesn't keep gnawing at the injustice done to me. I forgive because as long as I don't that rot is getting rent free space in my head. How long it takes me to realize it depends, once I realize and know that it is bothering me way more than the other person, I let it go. Sometimes, it is days, sometimes it is weeks or months, or years.
Spoiledbrat · F
You can't just snap your fingers and forgive. Some times it takes time. @Roadsterrider
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@Spoiledbrat I agree 100%.
SW-User
@Roadsterrider youre right, we only give those people power over us when we don’t forget what they did. Leave it to karma to deal with them.