How long does it take you to forgive someone that

hurt you deeply? For me it might take years and that depends if they apologize and mean it.

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I reached out to tell the last person who hurt me, I forgave him. I apologized for some things on my part that were wrong, but nowhere as bad as his deception. I wanted to be the bigger person to keep it fair on both ends. I didn't neccesarily expect a response, but not getting one made me resent I ever did. I should've kept it in my heart. Otherwise, I've found a sense of peace that doesn't allow me to allow others to get to me & I'm also very mindful of who I allow in my life.