how to be more chill?So I want to get back into dating but I’m not sure what I’m doing. Or well, I don’t really have the motivation to actually do it So my last relationship was about eight years ago, and since then I’ve been spending probably 85 to 90 percent of my... See More »
I'm Afraid That I'll Be Single ForeverOhhhh it happened. All my friends are engaged and I’ve probably only been on six dates in the past year. I’m honestly shook, I’ve been frantically going through tinder and bumble and all that trying to find dates for all these weddings (all... See More »
I Am Not Where I Wanted to Be At This AgeThis... is not... how this... was supposed... to go. I am literally watching everything that I have ever wanted, planned, worked on, and dreamt my life would be... happen to everyone else except for me. It’s enough to make you not even want to try... See More »
I Wish I Had More Close FriendsI’ll start by saying I love my friends and I’m happy they’re happy, but I want to know how would you guys dodge the topic of relationships? They’re all happily coupled and I’m so single it’s pathetic. They mean really well but whenever I see them... See More »
I Want to Be HappyI don’t know what kind of posts typically go in this group but has anyone felt like they’ve only gotten bad news, or have been stuck in a rut that you can’t actively get out of? Has it lasted more than a year? It’s been two and a half years of just... See More »
I Am SingleI feel like being single for as long as I have been puts me at a severe disadvantage. all my friends are talking marriage and I've never even had a first kiss. makes me feel like the first person I come across is going to make me explain myself, and... See More »
I Am Not Where I Wanted to Be At This AgeI’m going to be 26 in two months, and since I’ve gotten out of school I have done nothing worth caring about. I got a degree and a certification and have done nothing with those, no place of my own, no family to my name, hell I’ve never even been... See More »
I Want My First Marriage To Be My Only Marriageit’s difficult nowadays to feel like this. i’ve seen a lot of my friends relationships fall apart, their parents divorcing, and that way marriage is working for my parents. and never having an actually relationship of my own i don’t know how to trust... See More »
I Am a Romantici just want to stop torturing myself, being a single romantic. all the pretty words i can’t use, nice things i can’t do. i just want to stop thinking about it and daydreaming about it. because there’s a part of me on the other side of my brain that... See More »
I Am Singleyou know, i really think there’s no need for people to shame those who want to be in a relationship. the key word is want, not need
I'm Afraid That I'll Be Single ForeverI hate having to act like being single doesn’t kill me inside whenever I’m with my friends and their boyfriends, which is every time i see them
I Wish I Had More Close Friendswelp, my friends all have new friends and boyfriends now. it’s been a good decade run but i guess we’re done now... how to be okay with loneliness? 🤔 i wish i didn’t live here anymore
I Am My Own Worst Enemyi complain about not being close to anyone, but maybe i’m not the nicest person in the world. i might actually be a worse person than i thought
I'm Afraid That I'll Be Single Foreveri’m hardly even that likable, i don’t know what made me think someone would love me. i don’t know how but i think i’ll have to learn how to keep going without ever knowing that love