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Is it just me or are male cats just sweeter and

more affectionate than female cats? 😻
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badminton · 61-69, MVIP
@SW-User Bob cat,

@badminton Adorable ! 😊
The cat in the hat.
GerOttman · 70-79, M
@badminton The Orange Tiger was bred by the ancient Persians to be a total weirdo!
4meAndyou · F
Nope. Depends entirely on how the cat was raised from a kitten. 😉
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@4meAndyou Not my experience. Outdoor cats, same litter, same treatment, not socialized. Tomcats came to us on their own and let us pet them, cats stayed away. It happened at least in two generations.
4meAndyou · F
@CrazyMusicLover Outdoor cats are different, too. Always more independent and a little wilder. But any cat will come to you if you feed them.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@4meAndyou That's true. I just found this observation interesting and always wondered why tomcats seemed to literally come to us for pets anytime while cats were always distrustful and only let us pet them while fed and then they licked their fur right away. Maybe they hate our smell, haha.
Lilymoon · F
Yeah for sure. I've had many cats and the males are always more cuddly.
Although my female cat now is still very sweet.
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Moody too
Just like us 😂@Lilymoon
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User haha defo 🤭
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I have a male cat hes 7 neutered and he is nothing but one big ball of furr that only runs on food water cuddles and a toy thats it . Hes my cuddle bug in the morning each time , female can be loyal and cuddly i knew this woman who i call my aunt not anymore but that beside the point her female cat was soooo loving cuddle sweet i say its 50/50 owner vs cat your good to the cat it will be good to you .
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My male cat loves to cuddle and is very affectionate where my female cat is a spaz she always wants outside to hunt. Though she wants cuddles sometimes as well but it’s usually my male cat who does
I get the same impression! 😻😻 I love my female kitties just the same, but they don't even come close to the cuddle power of their Tom cat counterparts.🤗 Male cats are strong in the Cuddle!💪🤗
Fishy · 36-40, F
In my experience make cats have generally been more chill.

The females are psycho
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Haha one from Venus and the other Mars @Fishy
My very first cat was female and she was very affectionate. My current cat is a ginger female (most gingers are male), and I don't think she knows how to be affectionate.
Honestly in cats it's hard for me to figure it out since my first step is to only trying to be friendly with them.
GBPackersFan · 41-45, M
I have a male cat 🐱 I’ve heard that they’re nicer in general
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😍😍He's lovely @GBPackersFan
GBPackersFan · 41-45, M
@SW-User thank you so much and don’t tell anyone this but I’m obsessed with him 😂
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That is the general consensus (did I use that word right?)
black4white · 56-60, M
Thats been my experience and male marmalade cats are super sweet and calm kitties too
Not quite sure. They all seem to be friendly to me.
Cloud7593 · 46-50, F
It's just you. My female cats have always been affectionate.
Justgreg · M
It is a fact that male cats are more affectionate than female cats. Ask any veterinarian
GerOttman · 70-79, M
I think breed and coat play into it too. we have 2 neutered males and a spayed female (my sons). One male is a long hair forest cat, very affectionate, a little too much at times. Short hair buff is not much of a cudller at all. Grey tiger female is skittish except with my son, she's his personal lap-cat. Any Tuxedo we've ever had has been a snuggle bug.
being · 36-40, F
I'm not changing my female cat with anyone grrrr
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Aww I'm sure she's a precious baby 🥰🤗 @being
being · 36-40, F
@SW-User more than I could ever tell....
AuRevoir · 36-40, M
If you look at the lion kingdom the female lions are the hunters... I have a feeling its kind of the same for all the cat types.. Females are more aggressive with them as a species..
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Interesting point 💡@AuRevoir
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Nope. It has completely depended on their breed and personality.
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I'm not very experienced with cats but that's my general impression 😋 @Queendragonfly
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@SW-User I am. Sonde I was 5 with my first cat.

It's not as simple as males are x females are u in behaviour.

The left is a male , he's eating shit he shouldn't and he can start bite you from no where , I call him shark.

The right is female. She's meowing a lot but she's a sweetheart
I’d heard that, but I’ve come to the conclusion it also depends on the cat’s personality. I had female cat for 14 years who couldn’t have been more loving and affectionate.
calicuz · 56-60, M
Nah, I think it comes down to the individual cat's personality.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
If they cook your meals and bring you roses, maybe.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Yup, that's been my experience too.
That's been my experience too
smiler2012 · 61-69
@SW-User 🤔i would say so if they are neutered they can be
They are. I have 2 male cats and they are a lot more affectionate than the female cats. Naughtier as well mind 😂
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Yeah too clingy but more forgiving 😂@TheDeathOfOzymandiaz
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I have a male cat myself, he can get feisty, The scratches on my arm prove it. But females have the best instincts, in my opinion
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Female cats seem to be less clingy and more standoffish 😂@SW-User
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@SW-User Yes, especially as hunters :)
female cats are like, "if you cant handle me at my worse...."
Tom cats be lady slaying 😅

Those boys be smooth criminals
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Trueee@Teggy
popmol · 26-30, M
no its actually proven i think, make cats can be a bit of a dick when they are in heat but in general they are way more chill than female cats
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Such a cutie 💖@beermeplease
@SW-User she's actually a very sweet cat and very loyal to me, probably because i live alone and don't have other pets.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I always found my female cats to have more independent personalities. The neutered males are just big dumb loverboys who mostly only want food and cuddles.
The females were always better mousers.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Of course they are.

Since their balls have already been taken their afraid to lose anything else.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Cat sex war 🙈
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Yeah I've mostly noticed that male cats are often sweeter than females.
Like Fishy said, the females are psycho 😅
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They have heat cycles just like periods and all that craziness 😂@ChiefJustWalks
@SW-User Not if you spay them. They live longer, too.
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
Feline b*tches 🤔
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🐈👫@Kwek00
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
@SW-User GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DOGS 🐣
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
It's because males don't have anything to prove, they're the top cat
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It's been the opposite for me, with at least a couple of my own cats, if not more, as well as outdoor (grrrrr) cats of strangers

 
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