I’m not sure why, but since I was a young child I couldn’t eat in someone’s home where there was an animal, even if they’re not around..
They can be seriously clean and I can still smell them somehow. I have a very sensitive sense of smell. I caught a gas leak recently next door that no one else could smell even w/me asking them to try to.
@MellyMel22 That’s interesting. Is it enough of a problem that if you were visiting from out of town you couldn’t stay with them—you’d have to go to a hotel ?
@bijouxbroussardProbably.. I started babysitting a baby not long ago and they have a beautiful cat. Supposedly not a people cat at all. Of course he was licking my arms, sitting on my lap and even at one point climbed up and put his head on my shoulder like a baby would 😆 I thought it was cute but I kinda froze and when I got home I scrubbed my arms with antibacterial soap and showered 🤣 I’m just strange.
When we went on family vacations to a huge beach house with my brother, I wouldn’t eat in the house. I left and went to get a slice of pizza for dinner every night and that’s all I ate all day. He brought his dog and his gf brought hers. The owner of the rental had two dogs there when we got there too. Eating was outta the question for me there 🤣 I know it sounds ridiculous, but I can’t help it. I’ve been like that since I was very little. I went pony riding and wouldn’t eat w/my hands for over a week, even though I washed them repeatedly all day long every time I thought of how I touched the pony 😂
@HumanEarth Yes, me too! As well as I make my dogs leave the room I eat in, and they stay out until I say otherwise. This is called respect to and of the company I have.
If I know I am having guests, I wash both dogs some hours before the company comes over and clean my house and burn scented candles to set pleasant setting. The dogs know to leave the room when we set down to eat and not to enter it until I say they can as well. I point and snap my figures and the dogs scramble to the next room; the dogs know as well when I am cooking to stay out of my kitchen space as well.
@bijouxbroussard Yes, they are. kid's dogs, and the soldiers I trained all are. But for the life of me I have never been able to train a woman I was involved with, what gives? LOL
Most people I know with dogs try to train them not to beg at the table.
In my daughter's house, the dogs are well behaved and stand to the side while we eat: but the kids had to learn that if they accidentally drop their food on the floor, it's fair game for the dogs!
I voted for the second option, but if a dog is not too demanding, I can imagine thinking it is cute, while not in the least bit tempted to give any food away.
@DrWatson You know, something occurred to me yesterday, and I’m glad I was cautious…this was her mother’s last dog, about 5 years old now, but the last one she adopted from the rescue. My friend’s mother passed away last year, too, the month after mine did. That could certainly be why she’s treating him with more leniency. 🥺
@bijouxbroussard After my brother-in-law received a kidney transplant, he and my sister got a dog, on the advice of the doctors, as a companion for him during his recovery. As things turned out, he came down with Covid, and with his weakened immune system, he died.
During that first year after his death, that dog was my sister's lifeline to sanity.
So, I can understand what you are saying about your friend's dog.
@Selah Lol ! No need, she feeds him from her plate. It’s a small dog, but then he scrambles over by me and begs, which is annoying. She’s my best friend of 45 years, and her previous pets didn’t do this—nor did she indulge them like she does this dog. 🙄
I would expect the friend would remove the dog away from where we are eating.In this situation,I assume that the dog's owner is oblivious to that option,so I might tactfully and cheerfully say something like "Hey,he/she wants to join in - is there something for him/her too?"I If the response was no,they've already eaten,then as I'm a dog lover,I'd probably just put up with it.
My dog is very sneaky. He watches us carefully hoping for something to fall on the floor or if you leave your plate for a few seconds, when you come back your food has vanished. lol Ive warned family about him but they forget, especially the kids who my dog watches the closest.👀lol
My MIL's dog is big. When we have dinner at their dining room table their dog goes around and checks if any of us will feed her or have any leftovers. It's in your face more or less. I see my MIL feed it and then herself again.🤢
I'm fortunate that my cat doesn't like most human food. She may want to smell sometimes, yet once she figures out that it's not smelly enough, she'll leave disinterested.
If they have trained their dog well they should not do that or even if they know their dog begs and they are considerate hosts they should put their dog in another room while you're eating it's only good etiquette.
When I had dogs I never allowed them to beg people or myself. I would give him a little snack after I'm finished eating which taught him that he cannot come to me while I am eating. Sometimes he would still beg me but not others.
It's okay to ask the host can they please put the dog in another area until you are done.