@Mikla I've been there. Don't take this wrong but I'm old and it doesn't matter but when I see a very attractive woman I ask myself what evil lives in there.

@Gibbon I understand that completely!

@Gibbon Yup.

@SW-User Very true.

@SW-User Indeed it does and not for the betterment of mankind.

@Cantsayno I was just thinking the same. I've known men who women didn't find attractive but after learning about the person and realizing the person had a great sense of humor, and a great personality equals instant attractiveness in my book.

@Mikla I have found that too

@HumanEarth It tells me what I know to be true. I am happy for you and your lucky spouse :)

Thank you so very much for your kind words

@rinkydinkydoink Lol :)

@Sapio True

@Sapio Very true!

@bijouxbroussard I hate that at times, because seeing the flaws is not helping this world get along, but what are you to do and not seeing them would make you very naive? 😞

@SW-User My grandmother used to say "pretty is as pretty does". I simply interpreted that as meaning no matter how physically attractive one is, the effect is spoiled if you’re not also a nice person.

@bijouxbroussard Yes, and the world gives to those pretty. But it's also a stereotype. My girlfriend once met a girl so pretty, no one talked with her as all girls were jealous and all men felt underneath. The moral of that story, that woman still was just a woman, often without a friend.

@DHggmu Yep. Sadly some don't show it right away.

@Umile Negative people also look scary to me too, I try to avoid them

@Justenjoyit True. I understand the need for caution. Nmh.

@Justenjoyit It's so true.