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Good Looks are ruined by an ugly personality.

Good looks are ruined by an ugly personality. True or False?
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Gibbon · 70-79, M Best Comment
Absolutely. But some are shallow enough to put up with it.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@Mikla I've been there. Don't take this wrong but I'm old and it doesn't matter but when I see a very attractive woman I ask myself what evil lives in there.
Mikla · 61-69, F
@Gibbon I understand that completely!
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@Gibbon Yup.

Umile · 41-45, F
💯

A good soul can make a Mr. Potato look like Daniel Henney.

👌
Adogslife · 61-69, M
It is for me. I’m not into wasting time in a relationship that can’t have longevity. Even great sex would be overcome by a bad personality, it just might take longer.
SW-User
Only for the person who could be victimised by them.
Good looks have a weird effect on people. They are able to overlook a lot of bad in a good looking person.
Mikla · 61-69, F
@SW-User Very true.
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in10RjFox · M
Absolutely True Good looks are just an image. Personality is the animation of that image.
HumanEarth · F
1000% true,

My 1st spouse was great looker, but a massive cheater, drug user and a abuser.

Looks can only get you so far. We only lasted a few years. My 2nd spouse we're past 20 years together and working on 30 together.

So what does that tell you
Mikla · 61-69, F
@HumanEarth It tells me what I know to be true. I am happy for you and your lucky spouse :)
HumanEarth · F
Thank you so very much for your kind words
The question is - to whom? And for how long?

I am actually skeptical of very good-looking people. My experience has taught me “Handsome is as handsome does.”

And handsome doesn’t last forever and then you’re stuck with a terrible old person.
Absolutely..... 90% of so called influencers fall in the same category
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
Depends on how much of a reptile the observer is. But that would just be one ugly personality to another.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
You can't judge the book by the cover ♥
Sapio · 51-55, M
Very true, however, some people are drawn to a$$holes.
Umile · 41-45, F
@Sapio True
Mikla · 61-69, F
@Sapio Very true!
UKNaturist · M
True - lots of good looking people I have come across, know that they are good looking and have a dreadful arrogant personality.
SW-User
I don’t know..i read this article about how people are more likely to be forgiven for cheating if they’re aesthetically pleasing. Says a lot about human nature
Mikla · 61-69, F
@SW-User Indeed it does and not for the betterment of mankind.
Cantsayno · M
True, and someone’s personality can make them better looking than they are.
Mikla · 61-69, F
@Cantsayno I was just thinking the same. I've known men who women didn't find attractive but after learning about the person and realizing the person had a great sense of humor, and a great personality equals instant attractiveness in my book.
Cantsayno · M
@Mikla I have found that too
Madmonk · M
100% true. When someone is rotten inside it’s hard for that not to show through. When it does no amount of makeup will conceal it
It's bone ugly and cheerful for me!
Mikla · 61-69, F
Cheesecake · 61-69, M
Yep. I was engaged to one such, a long time ago 😐
Magenta · F
It's all subjective tisn't it?
Ferric67 · M
Absolutely true
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
True, without a doubt.
Most definitely True.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
Very true for me. An ugly personality is my biggest turn off.
Mikla · 61-69, F
@DHggmu Yep. Sadly some don't show it right away.
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Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I think a negative personality makes the person look ugly.
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@Umile Negative people also look scary to me too, I try to avoid them
Umile · 41-45, F
@Justenjoyit True. I understand the need for caution. Nmh.
Mikla · 61-69, F
@Justenjoyit It's so true.
GnomeyGee · 41-45, M
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
True 👌🏻
popmol · 26-30, M
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Mikla looks are irrespective in this case it is was the heart says and if you personality shows this as not a nice person that is how i judge you
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Vestorius · 46-50, M
I rather focus on a human being in wholesome.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Absolutely true. In fact, those good looks start looking like ugly looks to me pretty quickly.
Matt85 · 41-45, M
theyre the same thing to me 🤷
SW-User
[Absolutely true
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sadly in a lot of cases.
I’ve always thought that’s so.
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard I hate that at times, because seeing the flaws is not helping this world get along, but what are you to do and not seeing them would make you very naive? 😞
@SW-User My grandmother used to say "pretty is as pretty does". I simply interpreted that as meaning no matter how physically attractive one is, the effect is spoiled if you’re not also a nice person.
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@bijouxbroussard Yes, and the world gives to those pretty. But it's also a stereotype. My girlfriend once met a girl so pretty, no one talked with her as all girls were jealous and all men felt underneath. The moral of that story, that woman still was just a woman, often without a friend.
WintaTheAngle · 46-50, M
Is this a confession?
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
That's true.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
Thanks for BC 😄
dsrice10 · 56-60, M
Very true.
DViper97 · 51-55, M
Definitely!!!
Iwillwait · M
Mostly true.
factanonverba · 61-69, M

 
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