@scorpiolovedeep True, but also life is full of surprises, so you never know…

@MarbleMarvel I hope you have ways of relieving that pressure

@CrazyMusicLover That’s tough, why do you think that is?

@Ghostinthemachine I really don't know. I'm surprised I could be someone's favorite person in the first place. I don't think I'm giving out that much and I'm don't think I'm a good friend. I mean, I like this person but I'm not crazy about them, if you know what I mean. I kind of feel ungrateful for not feeling more.

@CrazyMusicLover You feel how you feel, and as long as you’re honest with someone about those feelings, you have nothing to feel guilty about

@Rickichickie That’s a shame 😕

@JustNik I marvel at how some people are so wrapped up in their lives, theirs problems, that they never bother to ask about yours, or even consider you may have them as well.
Seems you’ve found your family niche lol

@Ghostinthemachine I thought you meant with this site or like a significant other. Friends and family are different issue status I won't list on SW.

@WillaKissing It’s however you would like to answer or not answer

@Sojournersoul Yup. I need to remember that always.

@SW-User yes you do. Make your own happiness.

@SW-User it may be all you’ve got, but maybe it’s all you need as well

@rinkydinkydoink I don’t have the energy or time for more than one account

@Ghostinthemachine

Think of it as one long account - which, essentially, my "activities" were - under various and consecutive witness protection aliases. I must stress, though - consecutive stints as each alias and not concurrent.

@rinkydinkydoink I believe you, and not everyone can say the same about their accounts

@LilPrincess I appreciate your honesty on this matter…no matter how much it hurts

@Ghostinthemachine sometimes the truth hurts😒

@LilPrincess I’d rather get the painful truth than be mislead. The truth always comes out eventually

@Degbeme nothing like a favorite grandpa!

@Lilymoon They are a lucky person to have you

@Ghostinthemachine Aww 🤗 ♥

@Lilymoon 😊🤗

@BloviatingBuffoon maybe the best feeling in the world 🥰

@Bexsy that’s all that really matters, doesn’t it?

@Wallflow3r I think everyone is sensitive in their own way. Some hide it, some wear it on their sleeve. Doesn’t make one a terrible person. Maybe you have a grudge for good reason

@Ghostinthemachine I def have childhood trauma, people didn’t treat me good and still sometimes don’t so I avoid those people at all costs cause I know I don’t deserve to feel the way they make me feel.

@Wallflow3r If it’s the same people from your childhood that didn’t treat you well, then I don’t blame you for not wanting anything to do with them, especially if they have not made amends

@mooncrest02 you get back what you give out to the world, and you are proof of this 🙂

@Ghostinthemachine aw♡ it doesn't always feel that way but its very sweet.

@mooncrest02 it isn’t always immediate or in equal amounts, but hopefully by then end, it all works out

@Jenny1234 dogs are excellent judges of character

@bijouxbroussard how could they not? There’s plenty to appreciate 🙂

@Ghostinthemachine You’re very kind. 🤗

@bijouxbroussard Thats what people tell me. They say “You’re kind…of crazy!” 🤪

@DancingStarGoddess It must be genuine then. Don’t undersell your likeability 🙂

@Ghostinthemachine i think i'm extremely likeable, but "favorite?" idk about that, lol

@DancingStarGoddess “extremely likeable” is probably better than favorite. You won’t have any jealous people hating on you lol

@acupaday it’s definitely a warm fuzzy feeling, and you deserve to feel that way from someone who wants to give it to only you

@Ghostinthemachine 😞. We all do.

@acupaday we do 🫤

@PaleandPolluted do tell! 🫣

@Sevendays It's affection with mild spicy. Not sure hes into the spice but im offering affection.

@PaleandPolluted maybe it'll lead to spicy. 😏

@SW-User being #1 of 1 is better than being #2 of 1 😁

@Ghostinthemachine don’t be jelly 😂

@mooncrest02 and you are mine 😉

@Nunlover 💋

@Kuronekko actions speak louder than words

@WillaKissing but you must have some idea and some idea

@Ghostinthemachine Like I said I have no idea, and that is that. Being single 17 years and not dated in the past 10 years, how does that make me anyone's favorite or even on a person's radar? I surely do not know if I am.

@WillaKissing what about friends and/or family?

@OldBrit now why would you think that?

@Ghostinthemachine I’m sorry that happened to you. Care to share about it? Have you been able to heel from that loss, or do you still experience things that take you right back to that pain?

@NewBeginnings7790 Thank you, and yes, I am fine now. It was a learning experience, one that I guess in a strange way I am grateful for having
Plus my friends find it amusing now

@Starcrossed how do you feel about it, have you moved on?

@Ghostinthemachine I guess somewhere between indifferent and maybe a little lonely & sad longjng- not for anyone in particular but rather just the feelings you experience with reciprocated infatuation.

@Starcrossed that feeling of mutual affection is definitely addictive, and unfortunately for the most part, doesn’t always last, or lessens with one person, if not both

@SW-User I sense a bit of doubt. Is there someone you think might consider you their favorite?

@Ghostinthemachine Yes, I do have an aunt. She gives me great respect :)

@SW-User that’s really wonderful 🙂

@scorpiolovedeep I miss my grandparents and they passed many years ago

@Colonelmustardseed sounds like situation more complicated than it has to be

@mindstruggle how would you feel if someone told you that you were their favorite person?

@HalfwayHouseTycoon you must be doing something right, and your parents should meet your teachers

@SUPERVlXEN be the difference you want to see in this world!

@Ghostinthemachine N9! Nein, Nada, No.

@Iwillwait is that a “no”?

@Ghostinthemachine Affirmative

@Lonelyandyb of course it counts!
Kids know who a good person is

@ronisme1 maybe there is someone you’re not thinking of or considering

@Alyosha maybe you’re oblivious to how likeable you are

@SW-User you certainly are, and it’s good you know it 🙂

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout what is it about you that makes you a favorite of mums?

@Ghostinthemachine mommies boy 😇

@Sevendays that’s awesome! Who?

@autumngirl27 nice 😊

@Ducky think harder…

@RainyDaze they are a very good judge of character 🙂

@metaldog they are a good judge of character

@scorpiolovedeep maybe?

@BabyLonia cats are very finicky who they give preferential treatment to, so that’s some high praise indeed!