DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@DearAmbellina2113 I agree. Women have a different biological imperative. 😷
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@DearAmbellina2113 I think they do it's just they are less demonstrative with communicating how they feel it and need/use a lot more physical touch and sex rather than spoken communication like women do.
bijouxbroussard · F
@DearAmbellina2113 I used to think that, too. Now, I’m not as sure. I’ve known some people who would blur those perceptions.
SnailTeeth · 36-40, M
People who are in love don't leave a relationship just because it isn't suiting them.
If anything, that fragility is narcissism.
I would rather know the ugliest, darkest parts of my partner, their deepest hatreds for me, and still stand with them.
Than to not be laid bare in their presence, and theirs in mine.
Love isn't the ship, it's the ocean.
Love is a living thing, it's not static, it decays, it dies, it becomes reborn, it metamorphisizes, it is persistence beyond persistence.
Until one day it isn't.
And even then, if one still stands, it still lives. It still beats in the heart of that one who remains.
@TheFlippantSide
If anything, that fragility is narcissism.
I would rather know the ugliest, darkest parts of my partner, their deepest hatreds for me, and still stand with them.
Than to not be laid bare in their presence, and theirs in mine.
Love isn't the ship, it's the ocean.
Love is a living thing, it's not static, it decays, it dies, it becomes reborn, it metamorphisizes, it is persistence beyond persistence.
Until one day it isn't.
And even then, if one still stands, it still lives. It still beats in the heart of that one who remains.
@TheFlippantSide
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SnailTeeth · 36-40, M
@Matt85 This universe gives us everything and asks nothing. I'm unsure a purer form of love exists, and still we decay and die. We die from the oxygen that gives us life, the sun that nourishes us, and the food we eat. All the things that are provided to sustain our lives.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Could be a number of things. One that I’ve had experience with in the past is that he felt he didn’t deserve love and used running away as a way to prove that to himself. There’s no change coming in that scenario either, not unless he’s willing to change the narrative which takes emotional and mental strength that very few have after years of embracing that coping mechanism.
bijouxbroussard · F
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Idk man. It seems like all it takes is one heart break and they are instantly misogynistic. I don't get it.
Women have to deal with men potentially being abusive and violent, and yet, they still manage to have faith in love.
Men though. One bad thing and they tap out and become haters.
I have to ask, who has more courage here? Men or women? Because it looks like women.
Women have to deal with men potentially being abusive and violent, and yet, they still manage to have faith in love.
Men though. One bad thing and they tap out and become haters.
I have to ask, who has more courage here? Men or women? Because it looks like women.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Can be countless things. For example;
Commitment issues,
Past mishap,
Future anxiety, and
Mental health.
Commitment issues,
Past mishap,
Future anxiety, and
Mental health.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Kiesel · 56-60, M
I’ve never been afraid of love
DarthInvader · 36-40, M
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Nanori · F
Menopause
Idk. I gave up on trying to figure it out.
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Alcohol and other drugs
GerOttman · 70-79, M
We know how that movie ends, we've all seen it before!
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@GerOttman Something about a boiled bunny?
GerOttman · 70-79, M
@ChipmunkErnie I hate when the labels on the soup cans are not perfectly aligned! It just makes me crazy...
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
bijouxbroussard · F
@whowasthatmaskedman She’s statistically less likely to kill him. Women are the ones who risk their actual lives.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@bijouxbroussard On that score I agree sadly. But relationships vary. There are couples only there for what they can get out of a relationship. And the moment it stops being profitable for them at some level they call it quits. Or commence abuse. And a woman is certainly more vulnerable there. My specific reference is to any male who is truly smitten.. He is about to have his whole existence turned on its head..Now I know you will ask if I dont clarify. So here we go.. Men are women are different at a base level (for perfectly good reasons) A man looks for the "perfect woman" (specifically perfect for him) and commits to her for life. Hoping she will never change, which she does (for perfectly good reasons). Whereas, a woman selects the perfect (or best she can get) man for her. And immediately starts to try and "improve" him. (For his own good of course) Once hie is graded to her satisfactoion. (or she realises this is as good as it gets) She turns her attention to other things, like the house, or the kids or completing that education she cut short. The problem being that this upgraded guy wants his efforts to stay upgraded appreciated regularly. Like they used to be..I watched so many marriages follow the same pattern..😷
Younameit · F
Ew, I don’t want know
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
He is not gay?
Neither am I.
Neither am I.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
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