What makes a grown man so afraid of love and always running away from yours?

@whowasthatmaskedman She’s statistically less likely to kill him. Women are the ones who risk their actual lives.

@bijouxbroussard On that score I agree sadly. But relationships vary. There are couples only there for what they can get out of a relationship. And the moment it stops being profitable for them at some level they call it quits. Or commence abuse. And a woman is certainly more vulnerable there. My specific reference is to any male who is truly smitten.. He is about to have his whole existence turned on its head..Now I know you will ask if I dont clarify. So here we go.. Men are women are different at a base level (for perfectly good reasons) A man looks for the "perfect woman" (specifically perfect for him) and commits to her for life. Hoping she will never change, which she does (for perfectly good reasons). Whereas, a woman selects the perfect (or best she can get) man for her. And immediately starts to try and "improve" him. (For his own good of course) Once hie is graded to her satisfactoion. (or she realises this is as good as it gets) She turns her attention to other things, like the house, or the kids or completing that education she cut short. The problem being that this upgraded guy wants his efforts to stay upgraded appreciated regularly. Like they used to be..I watched so many marriages follow the same pattern..😷