If two past lovers can remain friends... [I Like Psychology Books]

That they have love for each other but not in love

"Love" is just a chemical reaction. Once the chemical reaction fades, we have a choice to stay and be devoted anyway, or leave to find another fresh chemical reaction with someone new.

If two people no longer feel that spark, and they break up but stay friends, I'd say they once were in love but it faded.

I've remained friends with my two last lovers..

One has drifted away, after finally finding the right guy, she lives in Germany now, the other i still see regularly, she has issues and i try to help her because nobody else will but we're never getting back together.

I think it's more related to actually caring than emotions

Lots of emotion could lead to a terrible breakup, or still being in love, but I think that legit caring for each other makes a bigger difference

There are different ways of loving. If one does not feel hurt by the other, then it's possible for lovers to evolve into close friends. also rare in my experience.

Neither. Relationships evolve over time.

Been there done that. My best friend happens to be an ex

More likely the former, in my experience. Usually such couples tend to get back together at one point or another.

I really loved this woman but when we broke up I couldn't be just friends i was in love with her to much more than just a friend

I have never remained friends with an ex. I don't know. It's just confusing to me, lol.

Or maybe that it is a friendship love and not a deep romantic type of love...

Depends how it ended I reckon, circumstances could have ended it rather than them falling out of love.

I think annoyances slowly build up and the spark left maybe?

Id say they are either mature enough to understand life or they are attempting to hold something together

There is different types of love including friendship love.

I've been pondering this question for a long time; through many lives.

The love can remain but the passion fades

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They still love one another, each in their own way.

Never were .

bratt no you have to just have to take it for what it is a friendship and treat it as such do not dwell on what it may or may of not of been you both have moved forward

I am in great standing with most of my old lovers, exes etc.
not every KIND of love infers [i]another[/i] Kind of love

Still love. Just a different love.

Enemies come from passion friends come from love.

They could still love one another but could not live together

I think there is some affection still there

Yes...... it doesn't happen often....

Never were.

I have known couples who certainly cared about each other & continued to after their romantic end. But more than a couple of them years on have come to the realization they weren’t quite in love how they believed they were at the time. I know I’ve learned things about myself & life I couldn’t see at the time too. I try not to assume anything that doesn’t have a direct impact on me. I’d just be guessing anyhow.

I'm friends with my past lover and yes I'll always love her we talk once a week if not more

What do u believe