If two past lovers can remain friends... [I Like Psychology Books]

I have known couples who certainly cared about each other & continued to after their romantic end. But more than a couple of them years on have come to the realization they weren’t quite in love how they believed they were at the time. I know I’ve learned things about myself & life I couldn’t see at the time too. I try not to assume anything that doesn’t have a direct impact on me. I’d just be guessing anyhow.