To Guys... Do men mostly go for /like 'beautiful' women? This is something my sister wrote, she...

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

Sorry but had to chime in lol

It all depends how attractive the man is. Or thinks he is.

Like celebrities only date celebrities, most people go for the best they can get unfortunately.

But there's good men out there who will be struck by your sweetness or your wit or something else. All you really need to do is catch their eye.

Prince0217 · M

I do find women with beautiful eyes attractive.

From a dating and relationship perspective... I've always been around professional women (not necessarily my professional area). So, they were intelligent as well...
Just speaking from statistics. To me trust and bonding is important.

I value that she trusts me. I like that she wants to get to know me and wants to bond with me.

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

Most couples are average looking (of course, that is what an "average" is, by definition: pretty much what most people are).

They are together for years, get married, have kids, grow old together. There is great love. And neither are gorgeous.

I guess the rarity might be mismatches in attractiveness, but of course appearance is just one part, and the rest is needed for deep relationships. Especially over time as our bodies wrinkle and eyes wander.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I've known a lot of people that are not beauty queens that are married or dating,so, I don't know if that's exactly true ,but sometimes very pretty women have more confidence and that is an attraction whether you're extremely beautiful or just a plain looking person.
I am very shy myself , but I married a very shy man.

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

I think most men I’ve seen online see the beauty as much in the ordinary as in the extraordinary. That’s my two cents

TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T

I've only dated one woman so far, and if I'm to be honest (possibly brutaly so) she's probably a 4 out of 10.

I prefer men in general, so I'd say dating her was proof a women don't need to be typically pretty to get attention.

That being said, we'd been friends for about a decade before we gave it a go. We're better off as friends however. (Especially since she's a lesbian and I'm a transman)

cherokeepatti · 70-79, F

It all depends on the man. Some are more comfortable with larger women, they feel secure or perhaps their mothers were large and that feels like someone they could possibly marry. Or maybe they’ve been burnt by gorgeous but gold-digging women and they decide to not be tricked into that again. Or they look for someone who they share things in common such as hobbies like camping, fishing, gardening, rural life or volunteering or careers….and will treat them well.

exexec · 70-79, C

I fell in love with a cute girl who became a beautiful woman, but most of the married ladies whom I see are not especially physically attractive by your standards. A nice smile and good personality can be super attractive.

IM5688 · 70-79, M

Personally, during my dating years, I always liked and dated the plain looking girls. They seem to have a better personality are more interesting and are more natural. They're not usually caught up in themselves, their clothes, their nails, etc.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

I can only speak for myself. That is mostly true. I am a visual person and go off looks immediately. I want a woman who I find beautiful. If she ends up having a controlling,narcissistic or entitlement personality the like/attraction is evaporated.

Allelse · 36-40, M

I like all kinds, but once I try and get to know them, ugh! I'm too judgemental and easily annoyed and then I don't find them all that attractive anymore. The fantasy is ruined. So it doesn't matter in the end.

Nunlover

If she is confident and has good head game then I’d consider dating

BiasForAction · M

I have found that society’s stamp of approval of “the most beautiful” women seldom gets my attention. I tend to be attracted to smart, self- confident, ambitious women who are idealistic. In an ironic twist, these are exactly the kind of women who are unimpressed with moi. Ah, the cruel hand of fate.

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

Attracted to beautiful women of course but dating give me intelligence, conversation and warmth.

jarinm · 56-60, M

For me it is more who she is, her personality that matters. I would love to be involved with a woman who enjoys having power over a man

4thdimensiondream · 70-79, M

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In my experience only the cool boys really cared about looks. Always personality came first for me.

chuck7882 · 61-69, M

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And sometimes it seems like you don't realize just what a beautiful woman you are Michelle

Lostpoet · M

I think if spent time with them and they loved me I would fall in love with them.

GoFish ·

no. guys go for all kinds of girls and women .. not everyone thinks the same.. it's normal to be attracted to attractive people but not everyone is attracted to the same things

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

I will only go for a burger with a girl if, she is an ex beauty queen or been in hit movies on the pictures. Jennifer Lawrence is coming over on Saturday and were going to KFC then going bowling

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

I remember your picture and you are stunning 😍

Fawma123 · 46-50, M

I like beautiful women but it's also about chemistry and personality

MayorOfCrushtown · M

i will take an average looking lady any day of the week, if they have a good sense of humor, kind, sweet, and if they can cook, thats also a plus.

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

Not exactly but she has to be acceptable though. The personality is the first thing I personally care more about more than the looks.

Nick1 · 61-69, M

For good partnership, you have to see whole package, mind, body and personality.

Northwest · M

Why would a woman date a guy who only wants her for her looks, when they know that looks will eventually fade, and leave her alone, in search for the next woman who doesn't understand that looks fade.

chrisCA · M

I have always preferred the girl next door.

BohoBabe · M

What are ya, kidding me? Look how many guys will bang anything that moves. Sure, we all prefer good-looking people no matter your gender. But I see plenty of guys with girls who are mid at best.

mainvane · 61-69, M

I'd say all women look beautiful once their clothes are off

lissah · 36-40, F

Well just look around. I think the majority of men go for the plainer looking girls.

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Everybody has a type.

pdockal · 56-60, M

Depends on the person

StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M

I heard that what they go for is the opposite

GnomeyGee · 41-45, M

All women are beautiful until they're not. Rudeness, entitled, things such as that make them not beautiful anymore