Of course. Looks are third in the hierarchy.

Personality
Capability
Looks

That's the only way to fall in love. I fell in love with my husband because of his spirit and love of life. I wasn't attracted to him physically but that didn't take long to develop. I'm absolutely blessed to have fallen in love with his heart, mind and soul. The physical appearance aka the body caught up afterwards.

Yes. As a young woman, I was terrified of men. I chose instead to bury myself in work my first year out of school. 6 long days of work and one day of sleep. And that worked for me until my new lady friends in the office demanded that I go out with them on a ladies' night. Social issues were the last thing on my mind, so I didn't have the clothes, shoes, or even the makeup, and I declined. They showed up at my apartment with everything needed to get me out the door with them. We arrived, and I just got comfortable when a tall guy asked me to dance. I love to dance and from what I could tell he was cute ( I left without putting my contacts in and I did not want to wear my glasses). He was so fun to talk to and a great dancer. In what seemed like 30 minutes was 3 and a half hours and my ride said it was time to go. I thanked him and left. The next day, the most enormous bouquet of roses I had ever seen arrived at the office with my name on it. He called me for lunch, but I could not go till the next day. I was nervous because I really wasn't sure of what he looked like. When he came up to get me...he took my breath away. He has been my dance partner, best friend, and the love of my life everyday since.

Yes. My biggest ever crush was on a girl who wasn't really conventionally attractive, as she was very overweight. She had beautiful light blue eyes and naturally blonde hair though. I was just crazy about her, I loved everything about her. Just seeing her silhouette in the distance on my way to school, made my heart flutter. She was incredibly witty, kind, and just her. 🩷

2nd wife is personality first, looks second. My first wife was the opposite. I’m happier now than I’ve ever been.

Yes. I loved his honesty and his kind, caring heart before I ever saw his face.

If you have a vibe, some good conversation you won't even think about looks . You will just be thinking about that person and how they made you feel.

No, it's always the whole package or nothing. If I admire someone's personality, I can value them just enough without any romantic or sexual feelings.

Yep, I am not one to miss out on a fantastic personality and funny with it ;)
The looks was a bonus.

The majority of my relationships were formed online and we bonded over discussions before ever actually seeing each other. In fact, my very first relationship was that way.

Everytime!

Yep, but personality, intelligence and looks togther blew me away... still that now

Yes but he’s both empathetic good looking and funny and has a nice penis too, actually he wasn’t that good looking at first then I thought I was being too picky , because I am , but realised he’s very handsome and sexy

Usually, when I am falling for someone, it's all about their looks or their sexy eyes or their smile or how much fun they are...or a massive combination of all of the above.

Certainly!

Not fallen in love but very attracted to someone intellectually

Yes. Often their personality has made them look better to me, too…

We usually fall in 'Lust' but, In Love, we are 'raised' .

Yes. Have you?

No but next time I will try

Your mom.

That's the way it should be!

There is no other way for me

Yes, but they weren't ugly. They were a source of hope

Yes once though they were still gorgeous.

For sure. Personalities clicking are a huge percentage of it.

They combine to be the perfect match.

Every time.
I don't trust good looks.

Yeah cause i never even saw his looks 😅

Yes. Looks get boring quickly when there's no personality whatsoever.

No

Yes

Yes

yes

No.

Yes, my wife she had the purest heart😢❤