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Helioskull · 22-25, M
Tell myself I dont have enough time to beat off before I leave

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Burying my oldest son in July 2003 at the age of 19
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@SW-User That I can imagine. When our daughter died my wife could not understand that I had to go back to work.
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@SW-User I am very sorry for your loss
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Morvoren · F
Coping with a miscarriage, and a boyfriend who against all reason blamed himself for what happened.

And then learning I will never have be able to have children.
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@Morvoren That is so so sad. My wife could not have more after our daughter died. So I have no biological children either. Did your bf stay with you?
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@SW-User Yes, we came through it together and we are married now.
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@Morvoren That is lovely. And I’ve been married to my wife thirty two years too.
taneegoan · 31-35, F
living abandoned by my family
Babaloo6 · 41-45, M
@taneegoan can I PM you?
DCGuy77 · 22-25, M
@taneegoan Very sad to hear that. I am sure it is very tough :(
curiousaboy · 31-35, M
@taneegoan Very sorry to hear this friend, But you are not alone.
Surviving my own attempted undoing, twice.
Watching my father die.
Being virtually disowned by my family.
Chemotherapy.
Umile · 41-45, F
@SooperSarah strong
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
I nursed my Grandmother and Uncle through the final years of their lives.
SWUser123 · 26-30, F
@Thevy29 omg. How did you do it? I'm sure it was painful. Did you ever feel burdened though?
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
@SWUser123 I was in the first year of a Chef Apprenticeship when my Uncle was diagnosed with cancer. He was the primary care giver for Grandma at the time and already had some support in place. I changed to Aged care and Enrolled nursing. Posed as one of the day time carers, since Grandma didn't recognise me. I helped out during the day till he got home from work.
The Next door neighbours gave me a room to board in, so I was always close at hand. Grandma had a stroke 2 years later and we couldn't manage her at home and had to place her in a facility. I got a part time job there too and Uncle visited daily. I moved in with Uncle and took care of the house. He was devastated when she passed away 3 years after that. And he died a year later in 2009.
I never felt burdened. It gave me purpose. When I left Highschool I couldn't find a job, ended up on the street too depressed to see a way forward. The Chef course was the first available option. And then uncle got his diagnoses and there was no other choice, they were family. You do what you can for family.
Change my mindset.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
Dealing with the suicide death of my son.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@WillaKissing I hope not, I have sons, they are my life. I pray to God that one day you find peace. And peace for your beloved son. 🙏
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@Lilliesandlight You know when reunited in Heaven I know I will. But there will always be this living with his loss until that day that hurts. But I will be fine. Bless you and your son's.
Lilymoon · F
@WillaKissing I'm very sorry to hear that 😓
Gusman · 61-69, M
Stop drinking alcohol before it prematurely killed me.
First stopped in 1992, (diagnosed with cirrhosis) for 18 months. Resumed drinking in 1994.
Stopped again in 1997. Started drinking again in 1998 before having my final drink in 2002.
Kstrong · 56-60, F
@Gusman keep on the journey, not worth looking or going back to that way of life
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Kstrong i have it beaten for sure. Alcohol will not be my comfort ever again.
Kstrong · 56-60, F
@Gusman proud of you sticking to your guns
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Seeing my grandmother, who was being looked after at home, in the last days of her life. I saw the end of life meds she was being given and it just added to the grief of it all, even though she needed them.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Identify my father's body in a morgue.
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@SunshineGirl yes, that’s another horrible one . In my case it was my mother many years ago.
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Get over all my pain and trauma.
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@SW-User I hope you are doing well and welcome back
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@SW-User

Aw I’m good thanks ☺️
Umile · 41-45, F
@SW-User 💯
croatiangirl22 · 26-30, F
move to usa from croatia
Leaving my premature baby in NICU
Kstrong · 56-60, F
@V00doo I'm glad she was able to come in 4 weeks. Something I can't imagine. I remember being pregnant and wanting to make it past 30 weeks as you're in a safer zone to deliver.... But nothing can prepare your heart ....
@Kstrong We were in trouble from 28wks. We held on