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Do men find shyness cute or a turn off???

Degbeme · 70-79, M
Usually a turn off.... 🤭

ExtremeNext · 31-35
@Degbeme lol
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@Degbeme Ahahahahaha!! I gotta try that!!
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Degbeme lmfao! You need to be nice.!
MySpiritEvolves · 36-40
Most men prefer confidence from what I have seen.

There is a difference between shy and quiet though. Just because you don't have much to say doesn't mean you are shy. Shy means you are somewhat uncomfortable with interacting. Quiet is more of a disinterest. Men have no issues with that personality trait typically.
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
@MySpiritEvolves Exactly plus one can be shy at first but not once you get to know them more. If they're always shy then well it may not be so good and may make communication more difficult
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@MySpiritEvolves Yes! It isn't playing coy or manipulation. Shy by definition can mean [quote]feeling uncomfortable, self-conscious, nervous, bashful, timid, or insecure.[/quote] Self conscious and insecure isn't attractive.
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I am a woman but I find shy men cute. Lol
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It might be cute in the young but not so much in a mature woman. Confidence is more of a turn on.
Apart from physical features, being attractive is about how a woman handels different situations intelligently...

Sometimes a woman needs to act with shyness, when other times she should be adventurous .... but honest in both cases...
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@Soossie meanwhile, she remains shrewd and calculating, and I am digging her garden and moving stuff from her garage and I am just the door to door vacuum cleaner salesman
@atlantic59

Hmmmmm..... take it as you want, I respect that ..... but nothing I said was about calculation but instinct and/or suphistication .... intelligence might include but it is NOT all about calculation....
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@Soossie I know you are right,sorry....
GunFinger · F
Cute up to some extent. Annoying if she's overly doing it.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I used to be shy. I definitely had better luck with dating once I became more confident. I also met way too many guys who were predators when I was shy and/or insecure
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
@WhateverWorks a guy trying to sleep with you is not a predator .
A guy trying to sleep with you is just a normal guy .
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I was specifically referring to men with abusive behaviors @AthrillatheHunt
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
@WhateverWorks ahhh gotcha .
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I am shy in real life.
Wonder how I attracted anyone according some of these answers?
But ,here I am married and still attractive to my husband.
PS people ain't shy for their own amusement.
Lilymoon · F
I'm kinda shy so I don't want my beau to be shy too. 😛
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Lilymoon Kinda? When did this start? 🤔😋
Lilymoon · F
@Degbeme 🤣

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@Lilymoon 🤭🤗
I'm pretty gay so does my opinion count?

I think shyness is very cute to an extent. If they were too shy they couldn't function in public or talk to me, there's a problem 😂 i don't want to flirt or make a move on someone like that because id feel bad about it.
But if they're usually really shy, that's really cute to me. My only girlfriend was really shy and i loved it about her
ByronTheRefinedMan · 100+, M
@PetalsOfLilac Yeth, I never felt so gay when the sky is bright. Those natural lights made I look the most refined, handsome man on Earth.
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Why can't you just be normal?
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It doesn’t only depend on which man. I personally find it attractive when a woman is shy in some way, yet at the same time I sometimes find it even more attractive when she’s not shy at all in some confident kinda way
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I find shyness attractive, up to a point.

Extreme shyness, to the point of feeling paralyzed by any sort of social interaction, strikes me as a sign of deeper issues.
redredred · M
Difficult. It’s hard enough to try to figure out what women are communicating but when you’re reluctant to open up it compounds the difficulty.
Magenta · F
I would think more of a turn off in a grown woman, going by all the comments of how they find confidence attractive. Shy is more of an antonym to. confidence.
Zaphod42 · 46-50, M
That depends. A little shy, but can still be encouraged to go on small adventures is adorable. Very shy and doesn’t like to go anywhere or do anything, ridiculous.
Starchild1983 · 41-45, F
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
Dunno I'm the person with a social phobia and shyness problem not the women I attempt to interest.
Depends. It can be cute if it's only a little shy. But if she can hardly talk then no 😂
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
It’s a personal thing . Some find it sexy others don’t .
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
It can be cute.

But a commanding woman can be, too!
Bri89 · 31-35, M
I personally have always found it attractive.
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Men say that they like a reserved woman and some might but unless you are truly beautiful you tend not to get noticed if you are shy.
Confident women get more attention both good and bad so don't envy something that you aren't.
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@REMsleep Yep. I think there is either a lot of fibbing or they don't know what the hell they like, because I see over and over here how they prefer a confident women and that's sexy, yet most on this thread say they like them shy. LMBO! They can't have it both ways.
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
I feel it's an opportunity to pounce...-and be shy too, which really slows down the equation, again
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Each man will have their own views.
Maybe do a poll and allow only one answer per account.
eyeno · M
[b]Definitely cute, it'll spark my curiosity more and will even consider pursuing her ..,[/b]

Heyyya82 · 41-45, M
Well for women somewhat a turn on. But cant say other wise
Some probably do, some prefer confidence
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It’s certainly not a turn off
are we talking in the bedroom?
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Shyness can be sweet and cute.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
I dont mind it at all
It can be adorable.
NickyLee · 41-45
Definitely, cute!
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
A little bit of shyness can be pretty awesome, I must say.
Definitely not a turn off. For me it's part of the hardhtohget process
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Shyness is a large part of being a LADY, not a silly girl
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I mean, it's cute but I'm also shy so that kind of makes it difficult to meet
strongbow · 46-50, M

 
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