Do men find shyness cute or a turn off???

Usually a turn off.... 🤭

Most men prefer confidence from what I have seen.

There is a difference between shy and quiet though. Just because you don't have much to say doesn't mean you are shy. Shy means you are somewhat uncomfortable with interacting. Quiet is more of a disinterest. Men have no issues with that personality trait typically.

It might be cute in the young but not so much in a mature woman. Confidence is more of a turn on.

I am a woman but I find shy men cute. Lol

Cute up to some extent. Annoying if she's overly doing it.

Apart from physical features, being attractive is about how a woman handels different situations intelligently...

Sometimes a woman needs to act with shyness, when other times she should be adventurous .... but honest in both cases...

Cute

I am shy in real life.
Wonder how I attracted anyone according some of these answers?
But ,here I am married and still attractive to my husband.
PS people ain't shy for their own amusement.

I used to be shy. I definitely had better luck with dating once I became more confident. I also met way too many guys who were predators when I was shy and/or insecure

I'm kinda shy so I don't want my beau to be shy too. 😛

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It doesn’t only depend on which man. I personally find it attractive when a woman is shy in some way, yet at the same time I sometimes find it even more attractive when she’s not shy at all in some confident kinda way

Difficult. It’s hard enough to try to figure out what women are communicating but when you’re reluctant to open up it compounds the difficulty.

I find shyness attractive, up to a point.

Extreme shyness, to the point of feeling paralyzed by any sort of social interaction, strikes me as a sign of deeper issues.

I would think more of a turn off in a grown woman, going by all the comments of how they find confidence attractive. Shy is more of an antonym to. confidence.

I personally have always found it attractive.

Depends. It can be cute if it's only a little shy. But if she can hardly talk then no 😂

Depends

I'm pretty gay so does my opinion count?

I think shyness is very cute to an extent. If they were too shy they couldn't function in public or talk to me, there's a problem 😂 i don't want to flirt or make a move on someone like that because id feel bad about it.
But if they're usually really shy, that's really cute to me. My only girlfriend was really shy and i loved it about her

It can be cute.

But a commanding woman can be, too!

Why can't you just be normal?

It’s a personal thing . Some find it sexy others don’t .

Each man will have their own views.
Maybe do a poll and allow only one answer per account.

Some probably do, some prefer confidence

I feel it's an opportunity to pounce...-and be shy too, which really slows down the equation, again

Men say that they like a reserved woman and some might but unless you are truly beautiful you tend not to get noticed if you are shy.
Confident women get more attention both good and bad so don't envy something that you aren't.

It’s certainly not a turn off

Definitely, cute!

Dunno I'm the person with a social phobia and shyness problem not the women I attempt to interest.

It can be adorable.

I dont mind it at all

Well for women somewhat a turn on. But cant say other wise

are we talking in the bedroom?

Cute

Shyness can be sweet and cute.

A little bit of shyness can be pretty awesome, I must say.

That depends. A little shy, but can still be encouraged to go on small adventures is adorable. Very shy and doesn’t like to go anywhere or do anything, ridiculous.

Definitely not a turn off. For me it's part of the hardhtohget process

I mean, it's cute but I'm also shy so that kind of makes it difficult to meet

Shyness is a large part of being a LADY, not a silly girl

Turn off