Az43lurde · 46-50, F
Lo siento yo perdí a mejor amiga el año pasado fue un año de mierda solo tenía una tos y cuando entro al hospital resultó que tenía cáncer en 4 meses la consumió fueron días tan oscuro y triste la extraño tanto 😢
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May your care rally the Angel's to care for him ... with inspired healing, grace and comfort.
4meAndyou · F
@questionWeaver Thank you so much. 🤗
Peppa · 31-35, F
Gather all evidence, documents, photograph the area, prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
My father's in a care home and there are too many situations where you feel less than what's right, is being done. Proof would be in the use of hidden cameras.
I'm on them all the time looking to see what's going on.
All I will say is your friends comfort is what's important right now. That includes correct medicines, pain management, and mental peace.
My father's in a care home and there are too many situations where you feel less than what's right, is being done. Proof would be in the use of hidden cameras.
I'm on them all the time looking to see what's going on.
All I will say is your friends comfort is what's important right now. That includes correct medicines, pain management, and mental peace.
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Peaches · F
Oh! 😟I'm so sorry and will add him to my prayer/encouragement post.🙏🏼💕💙
Coralmist · 41-45, F
Wow that is a very tough road he's on..what a soldier. How old is he? My sister is I'll.. undiagnosed with constant awful leg pain, stiffness and twitching 24/7😕She doesn't want to live anymore. It's horrible seeing her like this.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I am so sorry. That doesn't sound good at all.
Justiceforall · M
Can you call the health department they might can check out the place and make them clean up there act, file a complaint with what ever place that will listen, I have to friends that have cancer one just found out and needed to put on weight because starting chemo the other went through it, and a operation but it came back and he is to weak for another round but hasn't given up and has a feeding tube trying to get his strength back for another round, they are stronger than I could ever be
4meAndyou · F
@Justiceforall It's really too late for that. He is stuck there for 14 days and can't be moved due to contagion. He is yelling at everyone there, and browbeating the nurses, and he is VERY angry.
For that reason, I prefer to wait until he is out of their hands before I contact the better business bureau, and we will also file a complaint with the board of health. He has already had a half eaten prune stuck in the bottom of his coffee cup, and they are just dumping fecal waste that is contaminated into a normal wastebasket.
He mentioned to me today that when he asked them to clean his room with bleach, and that when he mentioned to the nurse practitioner that there is no scent of bleach anywhere in the LTCF, she said, "Well, have they come to clean your room yet?" He said no, so she said, "Well, that is why."
Unfortunately they have not cleaned the room since he first became ill, on Monday, December 30th. And he is probably sick because he said they never cleaned his last room, either, and that his room mate left poop all over the toilet seat, and no one would come when he rang the buzzer...so if he didn't want to sit on his room mates poop, he had to clean the seat himself, with nothing to clean with except paper towels and water.
For that reason, I prefer to wait until he is out of their hands before I contact the better business bureau, and we will also file a complaint with the board of health. He has already had a half eaten prune stuck in the bottom of his coffee cup, and they are just dumping fecal waste that is contaminated into a normal wastebasket.
He mentioned to me today that when he asked them to clean his room with bleach, and that when he mentioned to the nurse practitioner that there is no scent of bleach anywhere in the LTCF, she said, "Well, have they come to clean your room yet?" He said no, so she said, "Well, that is why."
Unfortunately they have not cleaned the room since he first became ill, on Monday, December 30th. And he is probably sick because he said they never cleaned his last room, either, and that his room mate left poop all over the toilet seat, and no one would come when he rang the buzzer...so if he didn't want to sit on his room mates poop, he had to clean the seat himself, with nothing to clean with except paper towels and water.
Justiceforall · M
@4meAndyou sadly to say the hospital is like that where I live, it's like pulling teeth to get them to do anything, I can see why he is upset and giving them the down the road, there probably lucky that's all he's doing. Hopefully he will be out of there soon and something can be done to fix things.
4meAndyou · F
@Justiceforall Thank you. I will be writing his complaints after he gets out.
Carissimi · F
That’s a lot of suffering. I do hope and pray he recovers. 🙏
ABCDEF7 · M
Yes, one survived and happily married now.
I lost the other, she made me feel a fortunate brother. I still miss her sometimes.
I pray God, he survives this phase.
I lost the other, she made me feel a fortunate brother. I still miss her sometimes.
I pray God, he survives this phase.

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Aww sorry to hear 🤗. Of course lots of them and family members also . Hardly a day goes by that I don’t know someone locally who has passed away .
Something we have to deal with much much more as we get older ...
Something we have to deal with much much more as we get older ...
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
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4meAndyou · F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Thank you. 🤗
Sapio · 51-55, M
I'm so sorry to hear that. I can only hope that by some miracle things improve where he is hospitalized.
4meAndyou · F
@Sapio He is in a rehab facility, and I believe quite honestly the place should be closed down, and a fire hose with 25% bleach and water should be applied to the entirety of the place. And then their staff should be rigorously trained...and slapped in the face when they lapse. I volunteer for that last bit. 😡
Thank you for your good wishes. 🤗
Thank you for your good wishes. 🤗
Wiseacre · F
I am sorry to hear...my friend is recovering from hip repair and has a tough road ahead.
trackman11 · 61-69, M
I will be praying for your friend and for you.
4meAndyou · F
@trackman11 Thank you so much. Your prayers are truly appreciated. 🤗
gregloa · 61-69, M
Will be in my prayers
BabyLonia · F
I am so sorry your friend is going through this. Just one week ago I lost a dear friend to cancer. She was diagnosed some 18 months ago with stage 4 grade 3 cancer in her liver. She had secondaries and it was bleak from.the outset.
All I can say is just continue being the friend they need. Regular texts, jokes, hugs. Offer to drive them. Ask them what they need to put affairs in order.
Good luck, I hope the chemo/radiation combo works xx
All I can say is just continue being the friend they need. Regular texts, jokes, hugs. Offer to drive them. Ask them what they need to put affairs in order.
Good luck, I hope the chemo/radiation combo works xx
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4meAndyou · F
@Stereoguy Clean-ER. At least I would have the sense to use bleach unlike the rehab facility where he is staying. I guess the whole place is down with it, and they are so careless and dirty that the aid took his stool sample, with the contagious disease in it, and then threw the tray and the remainder into the regular trash in the bathroom instead of putting it into hazardous waste.
He got to the bottom of his coffee cup yesterday, and found a half eaten prune stuck to the bottom of his cup. He is afraid to eat anything.
He got to the bottom of his coffee cup yesterday, and found a half eaten prune stuck to the bottom of his cup. He is afraid to eat anything.
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