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Is chivalry dead? Can a man open a door for a lady anymore? etc, etc

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Of course a man can open a door for a woman, a child, a disabled person... I was at the grocery store a couple of years ago, when an older gentleman noticed that I had only a couple of items at checkout and the Express lane was closed. He gallantly motioned me to go ahead of him, as he had a half full cart. The clerk noticed this, smiled widely and said to me, "You see, chivalry is NOT dead."
Matt85 · 36-40, M
I dont think so. I can't see a counter culture that is trying to stop stuff like that.
Harmony · 31-35
@Matt85 Some women might not like it?
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@HarmonyOkay. I guess we'll see if some women answer accordingly :)
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I hope so. But, i hope the reverse as well. If my hands are full and a woman is at the door, I hope she would open the door for me.
SW-User
@samueltyler2 Of course, because it is just common courtesy.
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
pretty common here in the rural south; holding door open for someone is just as typical and thoughtless as breathing...

I can only recollect one instance where a woman complained when I held door open for her, I only remember because she was still screeching like a lunatic five minutes later. Everyone else inside could barely contain their laughter (much to her dismay...)

noticed plates on her Mercedes as I was leaving... California, go figure...🤔
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
I'll hold the door for anyone regardless of gender.
SW-User
@Jacko1971 Around here, we do this too..
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
They can and do and I smile for their trouble.
Harmony · 31-35
@Ceinwyn gorgeous
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
No it’s not, just a question of education
Not of fashion!
SW-User
You can but whether or not they walk through it, is up to them
chivalry has changed maybe, but it is not dead.
Magenta · F
No it is not dead, just seems to be less common.
Dshhh · M
i wish I had good news.. I was raised to be a [i]gentleman,[/i] and many ladies liked it especially those my moms age.. to do so now? be very sensitive to the kind of person you offer it too

the other bad news?? i have also been a beastly man, horrible and aggressive
guess which set of characteristics,, gets the most Female interactions ?
Castenmas · M
Not if the lady in question is courteous.
Harmony · 31-35
@Castenmas why not?
Castenmas · M
@Harmony I meant no chivalry isn’t dead if the make and female of scenario both have an appreciation for it.
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
No point in it any more.
The world has changed and we should all mind our business.
Sidewinder · 36-40, M
Chivalry is alive in me, which is far more than I can say for many others.
Sexist pig.. implying women are incapable of opening doors… tsk tsk 🤓
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
[quote]Can a man open a door[/quote]

Are you asking whether you [i] can [/i] i.e have the ability to? Or [i]may[/i]?
Harmony · 31-35
@basilfawlty89 not very polite
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@Harmony we'll let bygones be bygones and seal with a kiss and a slap on the bottom.
Harmony · 31-35
caesar7 · 61-69, M
I still do.....I believe in the gesture as I am old fashion that way.
Maybe tis just the climate deniers who do not open the door, so you should look beyond that group?
Harmony · 31-35
@BlueGreenGrey I am a climate denier
@Harmony well then ...

 
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