How would you go through the pain of losing your loved ones?
I had a nightmare where my brother is dying and it kept me awake for the whole night. I always wondered if the idea of losing someone makes someone upset, how would someone go through it if it actually happened to them?
I have lost my MOM very early age (I was seven +) , i know the pain of Loosing her and still missed her , but i learned how to live with out her . Its tough and tormenting but still Im here ..alive. Regards
We all loose people sadly. And we all cope differently. There is no right way....just whats right for you. But you carry on. You have to. You just learn to be without them. Thats all. At your own pace. You just learn to cope. X
its the worst experience we can have in life, but death is a fact and we have to coop with it. I had lost my father who died in between my arms, and doctors were helpless unable to do any thing. lost my mother while I was away abroad. we all will die someday, try to be strong. my prayers for your brother.
you must be pretty young because for us older folk this has likely happened already to someone we know. You get through it because you can’t lay down and die with them. Life goes on. No one who dies wants the living to die with them. .
I am at that point now where it's easier to count my living relatives. I believe I only have one Aunt still living out of eight, and both of my parents have passed away, as well as a beloved Great-Aunt, and all of my grandparents.
For some of them, the agony of the loss was like being gut shot. When my father passed away, I would begin to cry uncontrollably every time I thought of his passing, and that went on for two years.
I lost my brother when he was 19. It was an extremely painful thing to go through. Only time can make the scar of that emotional wound fade. Lots of time.
Lost my father, almost lost my sister and mother, you do move on as you have too. What seems like mindless numb shits expressing here, you do move past and take in what you care again.