There are several things that are very wrong with this picture!

You have a real child now. Your “man”needs to put on his big boy pants and man up or go back to his momma.

Hmm what if you would find something that he's willing to work for ? Would you guys be interested in moving to a more rural area in your country perhaps, where he can grow vegetables and cater to chicken so he can provide like that ?
And provided that food is provided.. you could cut down on your working hours to half ... ?

I'm trying to think of an alternative middle solution that would give him the chance to get something going and would also allow you to find your calm, rest and joy back...

Have you tried selling the couch? Not sure how you did this for 11 years.

Please give priority - priority for baby & for you

Slowly but steadily, change some routines & habits, if necessary the food habit so you don't get tired. There has to be some little bit which sparks your mind, like the breathing exercise called pranayam, which creates good feeling, a little yoga & reading or talking with like minded friends. These will slowly but surely give you inner strength.

Firstly the one who earns is the husband and the one who cares for home and child is the wife. So you are facing a role reversal situation and you need to exercise your right now as you are the one who has to call the shots. But you working from home is another problem as you need to put up with him.

Is there a option for you to delegate some of your work to him so you can relax a bit but still accomplish your work?

Since you work from home, is there an option for you to continue work from wherever you move to?

Consider and weigh all options. A cost benefit analysis will help and consider the financial impact short and long term.

It may also be worthwhile to sell and restart in another country.. Check if his job prospects are better in his country.

Do not handle this emotionally or with frustration that he is jobless.

You chose to get pregnant by this dude......

Does not sound too good. Did you guys have these conversations before getting married and having a child?

You allow this so it’s on you

What he is doing sucks but no consequences and if that’s the case you have to deal with it

You have decided if you wish to continue to live this way.
I'm sorry,sounds like he wants a free ride off your efforts.

You’re better than me cause 😬😬, is he the princess of the house or what?

Time for you to get out of that sad arrangement you could do better by yourself

Time to move on from him. Take your son, move into one of your rental properties you mentioned.
He will have to get a job to pay child support. If he moves back to his home country, great. Both you and your son will be better off without him.

There's only one solution for you and your child, DIVORCE HIM.

This is the child support/marriage trap in reverse.
A lot women do that to men knowing if he divorces, they get child support and sometimes alimony since the husband is usually a higher earner. Now that you're the higher bread winner, he will get all that if you divorce him, at least in the US. So basically he doesn't work because he knows you're stuck. Someone needs to punch some pride in his face!!
If he is able yet doesn't work here, he'll be the same bum in any 3rd world country and you his cash cow. Don't go.
I recently met another woman in your situation. Her husband hasn't tried to change jobs in 13 years!! Same low paying job. She earns 4 times his salary. If she divorces he gets half her stuff. This world is scary.

Wow, how is he not ashamed of himself..

Find something positive about him, build off that. Looking at the negative from the start doesn't help.

First things first; quit your husband.

Reading through the comments it seems you are in denial and not really looking for a solution!
He is NEVER going to do anything
You have foolishly wasted 11 years of your life and now you have a son and he is your number one priority!
Divorce him and move on with your life

Your body is still trying to recover from having your baby, and you are not getting sufficient rest and probably not sleeping well. You have my most sincere condolences on having married a lazy, no good loser of a husband.

Whatever you do, don't MOVE to a third world country to quit your job. Instead, think about getting a divorce. Then find yourself a partner who is actually WORTH spending your life with.

Introduce him to coding.

I think you have to be harder with him.

This is so bizarre

He sounds lazy, just send him to his Country by himself I think.

Sorry to say, I always wonder how these type of guys manage to lure women in to marriage.

That’s terrible.

Get rid of him
If you move to his county it will only get worse!
He’s profiting from you simple as that

Have you considered quitting your lazy husband?

Divorce the lazy sod...

He sounds like a POS

Ewwww what kind of 40+ year old man watches anime and not his kid