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My Husband wants me to Quit Everything

My husband has never had a job. He just won't work. He always has some reason. He doesn't like to talk about it. Now that I have a 1 year old son he is the " primary caregiver" even though he is still super lazy and usually spends 90% of his time watching anime and eating while supposedly watching the baby.

I'm always tired and his response is let's just you quit your job. Sell the house and move to my 3rd world country.
His country is OK but I don't have family there and I will never move to somewhere unless he has some plan and something going on.
So today I was so tired from work ( even though I work from home I strongly dislike my job) and I just told him that I'm tired and he offered the same suggestion, let's move to my country and you sell this house and our car and you can go back and forth and manage your rental property.

I told if that if he gets a job and rents us a place in his country that I will go.
I know that he won't do shit but I was serious.

He said , " WHAT!!, you expect me to get some stupid job for $600 USD per month" and he was like " I'm not discussing this anymore that is so dumb".
So he wont work for low wages but he will let me be the only worker because my wage is higher???
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MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
Well it’s no different to a house wife and a working husband
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@MoonaNorth86 that's true except that I believe in moreso traditional gender roles and this was not our agreement prior to marriage.
Men and women are different and the majority of men don't fulfill the househusband role as well as women tend to do it.
He is lazy and I still do the vast majority of the work
MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
@REMsleep so what
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MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
@REMsleep no I’m not trolling