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Were your parents affectionate with each other around you and your siblings?

I don't remember my parents holding hands or kissing, not even on the cheek, not even as little as pet names. They never went out unless it was shopping, funerals or family gatherings.
Nope. As my father said upon asking for a divorce after my sister and I left for college, “I feel like I’ve had to raise three children.”
@TheOthetAcc Nope, in fact quite the opposite. He quietly “did his duty” until my sister and I were out of the house then figured it was his turn to have the life he wanted. I have mixed feelings about that. He deserved that life but it was hard not to feel like the burden who held him back for so many years.
TheOthetAcc · 36-40, M
@OlderSometimesWiser How was your relationship with him after the divorce?
@TheOthetAcc Not great. He was the most decent, honest man I’ve ever known but communication-wise he was very closed off so it made our relationship challenging. Always wished him the best- just hard to break through his walls.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
My parents kissed when my father came home from work. I don't remember anything more "blatant" than that, but I did "feel" the affection they felt for each other.
BlueVeins · 22-25
The sound of their bed squeaking was the white noise we slept to.

Just kidding, hope you're well.
TheOthetAcc · 36-40, M
@BlueVeins thank goodness 😂🤣. That would've been a very traumatizing childhood
Not over the top PDAs, but they did often laugh together and one of the last pictures I took was a close-up of their clasped hands. My niece had painted Mom’s nails blue-green.

My parents often danced together, too.

But my very favorite thing as a child was listening to Pop sing while Mom played the piano. Pop often sang solos in the choir and they would practice at home. He had an amazing voice.

Mom said the first time she heard it was when they were in college.Pop was practicing singing in one of the piano rooms. She knew the song, so she went to the piano and began accompanying him.
@OlderSometimesWiser
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TheOthetAcc · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard This is beautiful
@bijouxbroussard Oh how absolutely gorgeous. You’ve really got me teary now, my goodness, the love story told from just that one picture. Thank you, I feel honored that you shared it with me. ❤️
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Definitely. It weirds me out when parents aren't affectionate toward their partner in front of their kids. How else are your kids going to get an idea of what a healthy, loving relationship looks like?

My bf never touches me when his kid is with us and it bugs me.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@bijouxbroussard he and her mother were never a couple. They hooked up one time, she lied and said she was on birth control, then called him 3 weeks later and told him he's gonna be a dad.
@DearAmbellina2113 He has full custody ?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@bijouxbroussard no, they share custody. He gets her half the week and every other weekend.
4meAndyou · F
My father was very restrained. The one time I saw them showing passion, was during a fight when my mother grabbed the sleeve of my father's shirt and tore it. He just turned away and walked to the bedroom and closed the door. My mother stayed there in front of me, yelling out, "Oh sure! Go in your room and pout!" (I was quite small, but I remember crying and yelling, "Mommy, Daddy, PLEASE don't fight!!!")

But they stayed together all of their lives. They never kissed in front of other people. When I was 11 years old, I went to them, where they were sitting together on the sofa, and tried to give them both a good night kiss. That was when my mother told me I was too old for good night kisses.
TheOthetAcc · 36-40, M
@4meAndyou Damn, that last sentence is cold. I'm so sorry
4meAndyou · F
@TheOthetAcc Don't you worry. I forgave. I don't forget. 😉
They kissed sometimes, but it was awkward. My mom really didn’t like PDA. It counted as that even in the house if we were around.
Not much went on with them. they were pretty private people. I don't know if it was different before we were born
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
Yes they were. I was just a kid, but I thought all parents were that way!
SW-User
my parents were divorced by the time i was in first grd. i only ever saw them hug and a quick kiss once before that
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@TheOthetAcc my mother
TheOthetAcc · 36-40, M
@SW-User Did mom date while yet with you?
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@TheOthetAcc yes. she dated and had relationships. sometimes they were affectionate around me and my brother. i found it awkward. my brother didn't seem to notice
Musicman · 61-69, M
Yes they were.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Nope. My dad's always been sweet and affectionate, but my mom's the serious no-nonsense type.
WizardofOz · 26-30, M
Mostly, no but there were times they were. As children, we knew they loved each other.
exexec · 61-69, C
No. G goodnight kiss on the cheek weas all I saw.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
No, I never saw that.
My uber religious extremist church secretary mother thought pda was obscene, and still does.
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