RogueLodyte · M
Why is it that someone can be nice to another for years, but a few moments of frustration and lashing out defines their "true nature"?
Of course I would still love them and stay with them. I always have. Who doesn't get angry once in a while and say things they don't mean? I can't say the same though for those who I dared to voice MY concerns.
Of course I would still love them and stay with them. I always have. Who doesn't get angry once in a while and say things they don't mean? I can't say the same though for those who I dared to voice MY concerns.
@RogueLodyte I don't mean just angry... I mean evil.
RogueLodyte · M
@Lovebird I brought my ex-girlfriend a dozen roses for no reason. She freaked out and threw them back at me, exploded in tears and said that I reminded her of her father's funeral when she was 11, thirteen years prior. I was "evil".
taneegoan · 31-35, F
my first relation was with my mammo that time I was only 14 no idea about relation or bonding emotionally so soon that turn in to sexual and soon became wildly sexual as he started shared me with his mates also , I never feel really bad about that as I was truly enjoying my that wild days , although latter on I came to know by myself that how bad really they were treated me or what they exactly feel for me , I was first started feel opposite by my thinking at my 16th birthday when they never listen to me what they promise for , first ever in my mind I feel that despite I gave them my everything they really not in mood to fulfill my one promise , so from that day I started opposed them which I never did before and try to find my way for me but as the situation was not really good for me so i had to wait more than a year after I find my way I just get out of that relation
val70 · 51-55
Bonds are complex. Perhaps if one looks at it like objectively? Are those bonds becoming more like shackels? Is it limiting oneself more than one wish? Is there honestly no goodness any more left? Has it gotten to be a nasty game of giving cover to evil? Personally, I won't stand to be bonded by the serial rapist or murderer. I knew once a woman who defended an uncle of hers who had been abusing her sexually since she was a teenager. I tried to argue to her that it was wrong, but she couldn't really see the evil because it was always cloaked in niceties
Piper · 61-69, F
I don't know for sure, since that's never happened. I can only imagine how conflicting and emotionally agonizing that has to be, for those who've experienced it.
Rokan · 36-40, M
I can cut ties and still love. Love isnt actually the most important factor in a relationship though it is important.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
It is hard to stop loving someone quickly but I would not stay with them if they're evil you have to get away
fun4us2b · M
It's a process. You have to make a conscious effort to incorporate into your thinking, since it is a big change from where you were before....
SomeMichGuy · M
Leave
Move on.
Elisbch · M
Would you still love them? Would you still stay with them?
No
YoMomma ·
What kinda evil? 😬😳
Sidewinder · 36-40, M
In a word... Ticked off. 😡
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
Help them move a body?
MrGomco · 36-40, M
If it's my true friend I'll be evil with him or her.
ExperienceDLT · M
Well they obviously lied about their true nature so id be pissed
@ExperienceDLT yes they did or they have such a dark side