Ok random question....

His lose..

Rejected

For all of those who've been rejected.
Please remember you were first selected.
Then as they got to really know.
How you think and thoughts just flow.
When they got to know you well.
To freely speak and to tell.
Its then you learn they aren't for you.
They listened on but weren't so true.
You'd stand and cry, pour your heart.
But all they done was TV start.
Then it’s your fault because you changed.
Although it’s them who rearranged.
You opened up to a wall.
Which you climbed but from you fall.
Failed to scale the dizzy height.
To meet the level for their delight.
Then they say it’s goodbye for good.
Then you realise you really should.
The faults not yours they were to blame.
Playing stupid mind twisting game.

Dx

{@bondgirl1984] sorry it never worked out for you both perhaps you maybe heartbroken must it is good he has realized he had made a mistake now rather than a few months down the road. maybe the second date was the facts he was having doubts and then maybe realized it never felt right for whatever reason. maybe his heart and head where sending conflicting messages and nothing at all to do you as a person you did nothing wrong and rather finish it now than hurt you further on . just best to put this down to experience not dwell on it and go forward

He’s got avoidant issues.
To be all over someone then not and then disappear 🫥 isn’t normal….

He might come back as a zombie 🧟‍♀️ be careful.

Maybe you are way too serious for him.. after all it was just two dates.. that's not really a relationship to complain about being dumped its just initial dating

Well it was not met to be and maybe he wants you to run after him. I suggest leave it alone because if you go after him you never know what can happen, Oh maybe his Ex took him back.

He has probably not been reflecting on anything and it's nothing to do with maturity.
Sometimes you just meet people you find it impossible to build up any kind of rapport with. There is a totally lack of chemistry, you are not on the same wavelength, you can phrase it any number of ways.

First - if a man posted this exact thread but was dating a woman, everyone would be telling him he is a loser, a simp, creep, stalker, and to leave her alone...

There are all kinds of reasons people do things.

Do you have kids? Men do not like dealing with single moms.
If not, there is something else - maybe he is married and he already knows a LTR would be too tough to carry out.

He's an idiot. Move on. Forget him. 🤗

He, more than likely, did you a favor by stepping out....because, this would have most likely turned into a lot of unnecessary drama for you.

It's his loss if he can't handle someone if your caliber.
It's your gain that you won't be subjected to his immature shenanigans.

What is silly here is trying to reason such behaviours .. just take it as a way of saying goodbye. Focus on your reflections instead of his. Like how you responded reciprocated and most importantly if you initiated anything in the process.

Maybe another love intrest showed signs that they might be a thing? So he wanted to get off the market fast? Dunno. Maybe you have some weied stuff on social that put him off 2 days later?

Prolly just considering differences. Between you both, & whether or he could compromise?

🙂 Deep thinking - considering it were onky 2 dates .

What di you think of him?

His loss. 2 dates isn’t enough to know. His reflecting is more on him than you.

Laugh it off and try again.

Men lie, and who knows wat the real reason is? .
Chock it up to a guy with issues and be glad it did not go further before he turned weird.

He was most likely dating other people too and decided to pursue someone else. Happens a lot in this dating world

He wasn’t really into something serious.

You are lucky that he did this after two dates… can you imagine if he did it after you fell for him??

hes a coward and if he looked in a mirror there probably wouldn't be any reflection

What's wrong with a person being honest up front early on?

I likely has something to do with sex.

Such is the way of man maybe he was too shy or thinking of the other

Stop overthinking it, deal with the rejection and move on.

I think he is an ass you can do better and are better without him....

But either way we just carry on take the good with the bad 🫡

His loss…. Move on!

well if he got. um "close" to you he might just be moving on, having gotten what he came for

or if he did NOT get intimate, he may just be looking for that, and makeing this the reasons

or maybe, he is some kind of guy with feelings he does not understand

Simple, guys can be as flaky as women!

Still plenty of time to find

I will be down at 845

You should have mooned him.

Not worth your attention

Seems a little drastic

I think he might just be trying to politely let you go. You guys tried a couple dates and he decided it wasnt for him. Im sorry it didnt work out but I wouldnt take it too personally. Just try again. Maybe the next guy will work out.

Did you do him ?

You made dates via SW?

He need to see doc first 🤣 may be his eyesight have issues

I've had women do about the same thing. I had one girl do the fake "phone call from friend" in the middle of dinner and skipped out. Who knows why people run, but they do, and as far as I'm concerned, they couldn't do it fast enough.

I think you are possibly reflecting too much. There may be a multitude of reasons and it may not be anything you have done. At least he didn't draw it out.

Onwards, upwards towards nicer guys who deserve you more.

It probably means he didnt find you attractive if it was that early

He's just not that into you...