Ok random question....

I had posted eariler about a guy dumping me after 2 dates... he was all over me then went quiet then texted saying he felt we weren't suited... then he blocked me.... ok fair enough...

But he phrased it as 'i have been reflecting & i feel we aren't for each other'

It has just been pointed out to me... whats he reflecting on after 2 dates? Its not like its been months of dating or a full on relationship!

Any thoughts on his reflection? I think hes just immature

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smiler2012 · 56-60

{@bondgirl1984] sorry it never worked out for you both perhaps you maybe heartbroken must it is good he has realized he had made a mistake now rather than a few months down the road. maybe the second date was the facts he was having doubts and then maybe realized it never felt right for whatever reason. maybe his heart and head where sending conflicting messages and nothing at all to do you as a person you did nothing wrong and rather finish it now than hurt you further on . just best to put this down to experience not dwell on it and go forward

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@smiler2012 its in the past but why wud he hug & kiss me excessively then dump me 2 days later? Unless he found someone else

smiler2012 · 56-60

@BondGirl84 maybe maybe not but as i said too you do not dwell on it . this is water under the bridge now what is gone is gone just move on

Fairydust · F

@BondGirl84 Not good to leave you hanging like that, ghosting you.
it happened to me, I met up with a guy, he seemed keen and then he blocked me, came back a while later and started to like my photos on Facebook.
Really confused me, I didn’t react and then he Unliked them 😂
Weeks past he added me, I accepted, I didn’t say anything, then he deleted me, probably because he wanted me to chase after him, I didn’t. I blocked him on everything 👻 🧟‍♂️
all mind games. 🙄

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Fairydust frustrating! Hate the mind games

Fairydust · F

@BondGirl84 massive red flag 🚩