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Update on my mom

My mom is going to die.

For any who missed my original post, she fell due to untreated alcoholism and got a brain bleed.

First she was getting better. Then she got a second brain bleed and the damage is so bad we were told she would be basically brain dead the rest of her life. Maybe needing to be on full life support. Because the damage is frontal lobe damage she wouldn't be herself and her behavior may be bizarre if she even is able to be conscious again.

My dad was saying she wouldn't want to live like that and I agreed with him. My mom was a social butterfly who loved to exercise, dance and garden before alcoholism took her. She would never want to be trapped hooked up to tubes with a broken brain.

I knew this would happen eventually. My parents wouldn't take steps to stop it. I feel heartbroken.
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Kstrong · 56-60, F
Im so sorry to hear of your mothers ill health. Im so sorry for the callous words others have said about your mom. A horrible disease, the demons and regrets she may have faced, dont wish that upon my worst enemy.... may you gather strength at this time, for yourself and your family as you deal with doctors, impending bills, my deepest condolences on all you both have missed out on due to this dreadful disease.
I'm so very sorry. My ex spouse struggled with alcohol abuse. Watching a person you love harm themselves that way is heart breaking. I am keeping you in my thoughts.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your father are loving and brave for honoring her dignity by keeping her from a life not befitting the spirit she embodied.
i am so srry this is happeing to yiou.
i know so many people, like you, dealing with what others do to themselves.
where i live, we have the right to end our lives,
at east if we are in an impossible medical situation
Frostcloud · F
my heart breaks for you and your mother. she sounds like a beauitful soul ❤

don't pay any mind to the other commenter. they are a troll based on what little i've seen since coming back to this site
Matt85 · 36-40, M
All I can do is pray. Let me know if you would like that.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
I am so sorry!

I lost my mum in Jan.
Here if you want to talk about it. 🫂
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I'm sorry for your loss.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
I’m sorry about your mum. Losing a parent is awful.
Mooed78 · F
I am so sorry 😞
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I am so sorry 😞
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Im so sorry
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Terribly sorry to hear this 😔

Please take care 🫂
That is so very sad and crazy.

Being able to see what's coming, what needs to be done...and nothing happening...ugh
I’m so sorry. 🥺
being · 36-40, F
Oh beautiful Ananke...I am so sorry to read that really, it sucks a great deal.
Lostpoet · M
😟Who would smile at this
swirlie ·
Your parents wouldn't take steps to stop it when they both had the chance to make that happen, which means it falls into your hands to now deal with.

Does your mom have her Power of Attorney for Personal Care set up with their Lawyer, do you know?
tenente · 36-40, M
find comfort soon
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Tumbleweed · F
@being I messaged you
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@basilfawlty89 so much this

 
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