Do you think attraction can grow over time ? 🤔

I think it is only completely halted when you think the person is ugly

There have been people I wasn't attracted to in the beginning at all, but the more I got to know them the more I liked them if their personality was great.

Yes to some level, but if you are forcing it much or under pressure in some manner it won't be as healthy as it couldve been with the real connections. A natural bond with no catch and never rushed onky to then hault and be justa mess with their drama baggage. If they cheat and lie to your face twofaced many times during and after that, then even more so. So barely a yes, because it's not just about developing over time. It has to be real on both ends first and not agenda based.

I think it definitely can. If a guy doesn't have a chiseled chin and green eyes, but he's there every time you need him, it can definitely change.

Yes , especially when you fall madly in love with them. You suddenly think they’re the most attractive person in the world haha.

Attraction, yes....love, no.

Haven't had a time where attraction grew over time if I'm not attracted to someone then I probs never will be

I've known women who, initially, I didn't find attractive, but who later I did. A lot of that was getting to know them, becoming attracted to their personalities.

Oh it can grow or diminish as you learn about the person. Cute people who are rude get less attractive to me.

@Stark

At least with me and the experiences of other girls I know it is certainly possible that a person may become more attractive over time. The reverse is also true. With a person who initially bowls you over by appearance and chemistry, once the hormones settle down, and you get to know them for their behavior and character, that person can become very unattractive, if not downright repellent, in a very short time.

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I think if there's a spark it can become a fire.

If it's nothing... Then nothing cause atraction goes beyond something physical

For me, it nearly always grows as my affection for someone grows. Weirdly, then the next people I am attracted to look like the ones I last became attacted to over time.

I've experienced it growing over time. It can happen.

Yes, but people don’t often put in the time to find out. Because it really is a gamble.

No it's instantaneous.

Over time is possible

Does grow over time

yes

I think someone can change to you in some ways. They can become more or less attractive.

At first you just see the external beauty, but as you spend more time with them you will be able to see the inner beauty.

Yes, especially if you are attracted to someone's intellect and demeanor. To me, that's very attractive and not always noticeable at first glance.

Physical attraction becomes less important over time and the focus becomes more about the heart.

Well for me there are different kinds of attraction. I can look at someone and be instantly either physically attracted or not. But even if someone I might not be initially attracted to.. has a warm personality..are interesting..they have a nice laugh..I could definitely become attracted to them. Conversely if someone I might be attracted to physically has a shitty personality they can morph into someone I am repulsed by xD

Attraction definitely grows over time

Are you stupid?

I believe that it can.

It's like the weather.

It can both grow or fade over time.

I think so

Definitely can, doesn't mean it always will happen. Always good to spend your time wisely and maybe choose who you spend it with even more so.

I think attraction is more about you than the other person and it changes as you change and grow.

I think it can. Lighting change, particular conversation even a change in appearance.

When they change hairstyles sometimes, or when you see them in different outfits.

Yes it can, unfortunately.

[i][c=#BF0080]Yeah, it’s the worst kind [/c][/i]

Definitely can grow over time.

Definitely.

yes

I’ve had the experience of it growing as I got to know someone.

It can happen but dont wait around for it

Oh definitely, for sure.

10 y/o 18 y/o

Attraction to people can get more or less with time, experiences & changes.