I think it is only completely halted when you think the person is ugly
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
There have been people I wasn't attracted to in the beginning at all, but the more I got to know them the more I liked them if their personality was great.
@DearAmbellina2113 what if their personality is okay, but they’re there for you always and make a great partner ?
Mamapolo2016 · F
I think it definitely can. If a guy doesn't have a chiseled chin and green eyes, but he's there every time you need him, it can definitely change.
SabrinaKinkle · 26-30, F
Yes to some level, but if you are forcing it much or under pressure in some manner it won't be as healthy as it couldve been with the real connections. A natural bond with no catch and never rushed onky to then hault and be justa mess with their drama baggage. If they cheat and lie to your face twofaced many times during and after that, then even more so. So barely a yes, because it's not just about developing over time. It has to be real on both ends first and not agenda based.
lily88mercy · 26-30, F
@SabrinaKinkle I totally agree with ya!
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Attraction, yes....love, no.
TacoCat · 26-30, M
Haven't had a time where attraction grew over time if I'm not attracted to someone then I probs never will be
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Yes , especially when you fall madly in love with them. You suddenly think they’re the most attractive person in the world haha.

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GlassDog · 46-50, M
For me, it nearly always grows as my affection for someone grows. Weirdly, then the next people I am attracted to look like the ones I last became attacted to over time.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I've known women who, initially, I didn't find attractive, but who later I did. A lot of that was getting to know them, becoming attracted to their personalities.

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I think if there's a spark it can become a fire.
If it's nothing... Then nothing cause atraction goes beyond something physical
If it's nothing... Then nothing cause atraction goes beyond something physical
lily88mercy · 26-30, F
@Stark
At least with me and the experiences of other girls I know it is certainly possible that a person may become more attractive over time. The reverse is also true. With a person who initially bowls you over by appearance and chemistry, once the hormones settle down, and you get to know them for their behavior and character, that person can become very unattractive, if not downright repellent, in a very short time.
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At least with me and the experiences of other girls I know it is certainly possible that a person may become more attractive over time. The reverse is also true. With a person who initially bowls you over by appearance and chemistry, once the hormones settle down, and you get to know them for their behavior and character, that person can become very unattractive, if not downright repellent, in a very short time.
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@lily88mercy I’ve experienced the latter before 🤔 maybe even both without realizing.
lily88mercy · 26-30, F
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abooklover · 56-60, F
I've experienced it growing over time. It can happen.

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LyricalOne · F
Yes, but people don’t often put in the time to find out. Because it really is a gamble.

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No it's instantaneous.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Does grow over time
Somewhereovertherainbow · 51-55, F
Over time is possible
HellfireandCandy · 26-30, F
Oh it can grow or diminish as you learn about the person. Cute people who are rude get less attractive to me.
@HellfireandCandy do you think they’d need to have a great personality for the attraction to grow or can it be an okay personality ?
HellfireandCandy · 26-30, F
@Stark it depends on your first impression basically how much they'd have to make up for I guess.
Casheyane · 31-35, F
yes
ABCDEF7 · M
At first you just see the external beauty, but as you spend more time with them you will be able to see the inner beauty.
peskyone · F
Yes, especially if you are attracted to someone's intellect and demeanor. To me, that's very attractive and not always noticeable at first glance.
Elegy · 46-50
I think someone can change to you in some ways. They can become more or less attractive.
TheGoodGuy · M
Physical attraction becomes less important over time and the focus becomes more about the heart.
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Terrance · 41-45, M
Attraction definitely grows over time
Spumoni · 46-50, M
It's like the weather.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I believe that it can.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
It can both grow or fade over time.
I think so
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Definitely can, doesn't mean it always will happen. Always good to spend your time wisely and maybe choose who you spend it with even more so.
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Selah ·
I think attraction is more about you than the other person and it changes as you change and grow.
When they change hairstyles sometimes, or when you see them in different outfits.
11knaves11 · 46-50, M
I think it can. Lighting change, particular conversation even a change in appearance.
Carver · 31-35, F
Yes it can, unfortunately.
thatscottishguy · 26-30, M
Definitely can grow over time.

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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
yes
MellyMel22 · F
Yeah, it’s the worst kind
Well for me there are different kinds of attraction. I can look at someone and be instantly either physically attracted or not. But even if someone I might not be initially attracted to.. has a warm personality..are interesting..they have a nice laugh..I could definitely become attracted to them. Conversely if someone I might be attracted to physically has a shitty personality they can morph into someone I am repulsed by xD
bijouxbroussard · F
I’ve had the experience of it growing as I got to know someone.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
It can happen but dont wait around for it
DDonde · 31-35, M
Oh definitely, for sure.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
10 y/o 18 y/o
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
Attraction to people can get more or less with time, experiences & changes.
Dateless · 31-35, M
Are you stupid?