Sounds to me like you need some in-person friendships. Social media can never, ever replace that. And it also sounds to me like you're an introvert like me. Which means we wait for the other person to make the first move. Is it also possible that you are missing hints that people are dropping that they'd like to hang out?

I can honestly say that I can like a person, but when it comes to online friendships, I'm just not the type to DM anyone or have a long conversation online. IRL though, I'm sure I could have some very long conversations with those same people.

Don't pick up who is not loyal to you.
I can describe such people as star-crossed. Smoke and mirrors. You deserve better. They call on you when needing you. You better take off on them for your peace. Right people will come into your life. Trust the process of nature.

I have the same problem. I have even been told i am unlikeable which hurt. Enjoy your own company

People get confused by me I think. I feel very deeply for people, but can have a hard time showing it.

meh. not so much.
I exist out of spite.

sorry it's wearing on you. I wish I had better suggestions for making it less worse, but I'd probably be trying to do them myself.

Maybe ur too fixated on being liked. I just come her to entertain myself and enjoy the experience...bc I have a life outside of SW.

I mean, I hardly care.. You can control how you act. You can’t control whether or not people are going to like you. Some people might be really insecure and find reasons to dislike you for no reason. But even if you changed those things about yourself they would find some other reason to dislike you because you’re not the problem.

To a certain few I am, and I'm just fine with that. I don't worry much about whether I am or not, but I do prefer a small circle.

I have no idea, but that’s not important to me. I do my best for them regardless.

I'm struggling to believe that they do.

I don't know. Isn't it those you love most who dislike you or come to dislike you, or feel apathy?

I can feel vibes if someone doesn't like me. Even online

Some

It serms to be the norm rather then the exception.

Yes if i arrange something with a friend or adult children it might happen.

Some seem to like me, most are neutral and don't really care and I'm sure some can't stand me.

Nah, I am despised in most places, it doesn't bother me. I would prefer to live in a cabin in the woods by myself surrounded by animals and bugs the rest of my life. Be like Tarzan.

No. And it makes me really sad.

Some admit they do.

Only until they get to know me!

Let go of the opinions of others. If you approve of yourself then they dont matter that much.

The art of not giving a fuck.

Some people find that attractive. If you do it the right way.

Take tapas with you and fizzy water.

A lot of women don’t. Men like me but I’m starting to hate them

nope. i'm intimidating in an un-intimidating way. i'm just like the most ordinary looking guy, but i project bad vibes and people give me lots of space