How is your relationship with your parents and did it change while growing up?

mine is fine.. they live just a mile away and i see them all the time ☺

They were totally unprepared for parenthood and as their first child, I experienced the brunt of their inexperience. We haven't spoken in about a decade and I don't anticipate ever seeing them again.

I have no ill-will towards them, I just know that their personalities make it impossible for me to want to rekindle anything. They aren't malicious people, but have a very rigid perception of the world that makes communication toxic. So for the sake of my own mental health, I stay as far away as possible.

I guess the only thing that changed was that once I realized I didn't need them in my life, I could voluntarily exclude them, whereas when I was younger, I thought I was completely dependent on them. I gained a lot of my own independence by realizing that the support structure I had couldn't support me

They were/are pure evil, spent most of my childhood blaming myself. As an adult I know you can't fix evil.

I don't have a relationship with them, they were killed in 2006.

My relationship with my father didn't change much up until his death 5 years ago. I think there's been a certain degree of strain with my mother since soon after. I don't think she likes me, which's too bad. Then again, I'm not sure I like her, either. We still love each other, but I think a closer relationship would be preferable.
Tbh, I've long accepted to just cut my losses & focus more on other more easily controllable things.

My parents are dead, they were both very strict up til their deaths
I wasn't sad when they died, but I wasn't overjoyed either.

My mom died by cancer when I was 12.
I still live with my stepdad who is strict and controlling.

It's good. My parents and I have always been close. :)

Mine was good, didn’t change

I dont know when I was really young because my dad was always deployed and my mom worked one or two jobs so I was in daycare a lot. Then in middle and high-school it got really bad. It got better when I was pregnant with my son. It is way better now, though I still won't open up to them about any problems.

been alright with my mam with my dad was not so good just seemed to get worse as an adult we would wind each other up now he is no longer around i regret this greatly and wish things where better and the biggest regret was how i treat and spoke to him at times @candy153

We get along great

Parents are passed on.

I live with my single mom, we are very close, we always share everything with each other and take care of each other

My parents are divorced. I was really close with my mom up until she passed on. I am close with my dad.

Very good now they are dead...😀

Mine was always great! In my late teens, I felt like my mom was holding me back, but it wasn’t true!

We get along great. We even invited them to move in, as our home is big enough for a dozen families. They declined.

It’s improved. They finally realized I’ve been right for 40 years 😏

Mine is very close.... with my mother. My father passed when I was 12... (but we were close).

It's okay, which is better than I could've said some time ago.

Both of my parents have been dead for along time.

we've been very close from an early age.

Great now
Very rough while growing up

They are the reason I’m a social worker who lacks morals and integrity And shares naughty stuff with pervs online

Idk what's going on

Well aww naw.. I won’t even go there.

I’m close to mom.

It got bad. We're good now.

If definitely changed after I left home and they started seeing me as a self-sufficient adult. But to be fair, they evolved too. They actually went from being somewhat strict “children should be seen, not heard” parents to being a lot more flexible and open, especially with my niece. Now, they’re actually like friends, and I love talking with and visiting them.

Much better now. They evolved as parents considerably, not that they bad before, but once they stopped parenting the way they had been parented, they were much improved.