Should I get back together with my abusive ex?

Your "friend" suggested you get back with your abusive ex?

Get a new friend.

Doesn't sound like much a friend to me...

Oh. I thought we were taking turns saying absurd thing.

no
and you need a new friend

Of course you should not. Have some self-respect, not to mention some concern for your own safety. You can do better!!!

People really have no idea if they haven’t been in an abusive relationship. If you must remain friends don’t discuss your private life with them.

What was your friends motivation for this suggestion?

Some friends should never be therapists

Some friend that you have there.

[nebula] 🤔from a personal impartial view why would you do that and put yourself back in that position again that would be crazy. surely you cannot love a man who does such a thing and has non to little respect for you

Why would you?

No.

With friends like that,who needs enemies 🤷‍♀️

Never.
Abusers don't reform; they get worse.

That’s no friend. 🤨

Your personal decision only you can make.

No! Run in the other direction. Run like the wind! Nothing can ever compensate for abuse.

No way

No

you're how old?

OMG!!!

With friends like that, who needs enemas.

Hell no! Being alone is better than that. Your friend isn’t a very good friend either.

Hell no! Know your worth!

Ask your friend if your ex is hitting on her too often or too aggressive?

you're not even friends to begin with

If your friend thinks it's a good idea then I think you should give it a shot. Everyone deserves a second chance. A few of my abused exes have gotten back with me and it went well

Most likely not if I left. If I was the leftee and she wanted make up sex, sex yes by my rules.

Permanent return you require some new rules& roles i would think

sounds like a neat plan

Hell no !!

Is your friend a complete dumbfuck?

I'd consider them an "ex" friend

You need to fire that friend. That is not a friend that is a sadist.

Get rid of the ex and the "friend".

Why? Seams like a losing cause. I'd rather b single than abused tell your friend to go with him

That's not a good friend. as some random person from the Internet, no