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I contacted the unhoused guy's brother...

So freaking sad, but he has gone downhill so quickly, and I can tell he has developed schizophrenia. His brother and sister are looking into bakers acting him :( He has been getting trespassing misdemeanors right and left, bc homelessness, frankly, has been criminalized in this country. He is on my couch right now, talking non-stop to invisible friends and motioning...something he hadn't done with me even 3 weeks ago.
InfernoTouch · 41-45, M
Hi @foldedunfolding I was reading your posts about this...and I just wanted to say...


It’s really kind of you to help, even when the situation is so tough. You’re a rare soul, truly. I can only imagine how unsettling it must be to see someone go through such a quick decline, and especially when you're doing your best to show care and kindness in such a chaotic moment. I’m really glad you reached out to his family – you’re doing everything you can to make sure he’s safe, and that’s something that can’t be understated.

As for you... I really hope you're taking care of yourself too. It’s such an emotional weight to carry, especially with the sensitive nature of what you're witnessing. Make sure to take some moments to breathe and step back when you need, so you can keep being the strong, thoughtful person you are. Your safety(especially for a beautiful woman like your self living with a homeless mentally unstable man) and well-being are just as important, and I’m hoping that, in all the chaos, you’re still finding ways to feel grounded.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@InfernoTouch you are far too kind....you legit took time out of your day to write this long message, to a stranger; i appreciate it so! I take him in at intervals..it is exhausting for even a day or 2..lately i have been reading about schizophrenia and how very much danger i could be in. even when he was talking to his spirits/voices the other day, he laughed "with them" and said, "yeahh..she'll see soon." so im afraid i am backing off more than i wish was necessary :( still waiting on his sister to be called back about next steps!
InfernoTouch · 41-45, M
@foldedunfolding You deserve so much credit for the strength and compassion you’re showing in such a challenging situation. It takes a rare kind of person to not only take the time to care, but to also seek understanding the way you are. That speaks volumes about who you are.

I can only imagine how emotionally and mentally taxing this must be for you. It’s okay to protect your own well-being, even when your heart wishes it could do more. Fear and concern in situations like this are valid, especially when you’re feeling vulnerable. I’m here to remind you that you’re not alone in navigating this—it’s brave of you to take the steps you have, like involving his sister and researching more about what’s happening.

And for the record, we are only "strangers" among each other if we want to be. But as long as we have common sense and compassion towards each other even we don't know one another in life that's all that matters. Based on your actions You’re someone who deserves to feel safe, valued, and supported. Always here to listen, and to remind you how remarkable you are for balancing care with self-preservation—it’s not easy, but you’re doing it beautifully
CestManan · 46-50, F
It is nice when someone can offer at least temporary relief to someone who is homeless.

What would be hard though is - what does one do if the situation becomes too difficult?

Also if someone cannot afford stable residence, how does the court expect them to pay off whatever fines for misdemeanor charges?
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@CestManan exactly..it is so rough. i offered him a place to stay, but he has become so unwell in just the last few weeks, he couldnt even handle a simple job.
Yeah, he needs more help than you can provide him with at this stage.

I wouldn't be too bothered about trespassing being in his record... that's just a common way of moving homeless people on from one location to another. Unfortunately, mental illness can be another common struggle, too.

I know that being homeless makes my depression a lot worse and I become suicidal - mostly because of food insecurity and being so cold that I never got warm in the winter months.
@foldedunfolding No, I'm mentally preparing myself for homelessness again.

The last 2 weeks have been brutal for me and I have been close to walking out a few times, the thing is that people are getting stabbed to death for walking down the street here in town and I'll likely be spending the first night out here in town because there are no night buses out of town.

An 18 year old was stabbed and died over Christmas.

He probably doesn't even know that he's sick, either, or even remember half of what he's done. Hopefully, his family are able to get him the help he needs so that he can live the best life he can in future.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@HootyTheNightOwl damn i am so sorry..any job you could take to prevent those circumstances and get your own place or something?
@foldedunfolding No, I can't work and, even if I could, he won't let me.
Beaker4444 · 46-50, M
You are an amazing person. There was a time about 20 years ago that my apartment was kiddingly referred to as my homeless shelter because of the amount of people I took in. Some of those people are still close friends of mine. I can only hope the same can happen for you. As for Hooty, I've been in your situation as well. Stay strong and think positive. You can and will overcome your situation.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Beaker4444 aww that is so precious of you, and thank you so much for hyping me up!!
Beaker4444 · 46-50, M
@foldedunfolding Thank you for making it so easy.
Oh 😳 my family used to let homeless people stay with them..
@foldedunfolding oh i see so he wasn't a total stranger..
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@SStarfish he was haha..took him to dinner and talked only one other time before that
Strongtea · 22-25, M
You’re such a lovely person. I hope he gets the help he needs.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Strongtea thank you, my dear friend. it just killed me knowing he was out there in the cold rain and stuff..i would go searching for him and cry. his father committed suicide, and he got in a bad accident bullriding..then turned to meth. he used to be sooo hot, he could have MODELED legit.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh gosh, that’s so tragic and upsetting. It wrenches my heart. 🥺🥺🥺 He will totally appreciate what you’re doing for him@foldedunfolding
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Strongtea thank you for having such a gilded heart..his brother keeps saying that he thinks he will die soon, and is seeing the spirits from the other side..dude is only 28 😔😪 it is so emotional having a dead man walking around me..
Kypro · 51-55, M
Nice of you to try to help. More should do that
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Kypro thank you so much for seeing me that way..it just seems like the obvious thing to do!! but it can def be dangerous and even expensive
Kypro · 51-55, M
@foldedunfolding yes but at least people can try to help in small ways. I try to keep blankets with me in winter to hand out to anyone who looks like they need one.
Sylphrena · 31-35
I'm glad the world has caring people like you.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Sylphrena aww thank you love..i just have been there, y'know
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
That's great that you're trying to help him out 👍🏾.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@SubstantialKick thank you..i am missing him already, in anticipation of him being 51/50'ed or whatever it's called :(
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
You're a good soul
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@JohnnyNoir aww thank you, so are you
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Got to love the concept that saying "unhoused" instead of "homeless" is somehow going to make their situation better.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@ChipmunkErnie love the concept that that is literally the only thing you took from this
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@foldedunfolding It wasn't, but it was what I felt like commenting on -- sorry you don't approve.
How is the poor guy now??? Were you able to get him to a hospital???
SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP
You're a good person.

 
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