istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@istillhaveanameitsrick
Well lap it up dont put them right..maybe you are.
Ive just put that out in a question, it will be interesting to see the responses.
Well lap it up dont put them right..maybe you are.
Ive just put that out in a question, it will be interesting to see the responses.
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That I am incapable of getting angry.
I'm partially to blame, I guess, for preferring to ignore or let go of the slights and rudenessof others and me trying to be positive often. However, when it's blatantly obvious that the attack is personal and deliberate, I then unleash the fiery wildcat in me that puts them in their place . It's funny how they react in shock and disbelief...like,what...aren't I human like you?😂
I'm partially to blame, I guess, for preferring to ignore or let go of the slights and rudenessof others and me trying to be positive often. However, when it's blatantly obvious that the attack is personal and deliberate, I then unleash the fiery wildcat in me that puts them in their place . It's funny how they react in shock and disbelief...like,what...aren't I human like you?😂
Primnproper · 56-60, F
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@Primnproper They're not worth wasting time on but some need stopping in their tracks, more than anything, it's so they don't do it to others.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
ABCDEF7 · M
That I don't respect them.
Sometimes while discussing, I prefer to openly present my point of view and also expects the same from others. Sometimes I refute to their point so strongly that they think that I am against them. While, in my perception, they and their point in the discussion are two different things. I was talking just against their point, not against them.
Sometimes while discussing, I prefer to openly present my point of view and also expects the same from others. Sometimes I refute to their point so strongly that they think that I am against them. While, in my perception, they and their point in the discussion are two different things. I was talking just against their point, not against them.
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@YourMomsSecretCrush so you’re just a big teddy bear. 🧸 🙂
bijouxbroussard · F
@YourMomsSecretCrush You’ve always been really cool, from what I’ve seen.
@bijouxbroussard you see past the looks. That means a lot. I always enjoy our talks. Even when we disagree.
I doubt they think about me at all. I'm just not that important. If anything, they may think I am unfriendly because I keep to myself. I am, in fact, very friendly. I just don't seek out social situations or attention. If I am thrust into a social situation, I can handle myself just fine. 😌
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@SmileOnYourBrother that would make you a missed and overlooked treasure which is a shame.
IM5688 · 61-69, M
I have been told by many of my professional colleagues as well as many of my students, that I am the best there is.
While I admit that some of my teaching methods are what some might consider bizarre or outright crazy, apparently this is the best way my students learn what I teach.
Do I think I'm the best? Not at all. In fact, I try to downplay it as much as possible.
While I admit that some of my teaching methods are what some might consider bizarre or outright crazy, apparently this is the best way my students learn what I teach.
Do I think I'm the best? Not at all. In fact, I try to downplay it as much as possible.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@IM5688 well I'm glad they didn't succeed, we more people that teach to be creative with their methods..
blackarcher256 · 61-69, M
That I am far less sensitive than I really am.
In truth I feel things deeply. But I generally show the world very little of my inner self…what is going on in my head and heart.
I leaned when I very young, that projecting an outward stoicism, protected me. What others couldn’t touch, they couldn’t harm.
In truth I feel things deeply. But I generally show the world very little of my inner self…what is going on in my head and heart.
I leaned when I very young, that projecting an outward stoicism, protected me. What others couldn’t touch, they couldn’t harm.
4meAndyou · F
Misconceptions: That I'm a know it all; that I see the world through rose colored glasses; that I am sweet.
In fact, I'm none of the above. I know quite a bit...just not all! I do know about the corruption in the world, and I choose to believe we can correct some of it.
I am definitely NOT sweet. I am practical most times, and I get angry when people and things don't behave as I expect they will. I get especially angry with people who whine for help and then do absolutely nothing to change if and when I try to help them.
In fact, I'm none of the above. I know quite a bit...just not all! I do know about the corruption in the world, and I choose to believe we can correct some of it.
I am definitely NOT sweet. I am practical most times, and I get angry when people and things don't behave as I expect they will. I get especially angry with people who whine for help and then do absolutely nothing to change if and when I try to help them.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@HootyTheNightOwl then explain about the triggers and the angst it causes you and on that you would hope she would support you.
@Primnproper I tried that... it just leads to whataboutism.
It's not the only abuse we endured - but it was the worst traumatically speaking for me, mostly because I tried to shield them from it as much as possible.
"Fair enough "dad" did that to you - but step dad hit me for this trivial reason" Yeah, but I spent most of those years confined to my bedroom aside from the access visits with "dad" because step dad and I would constantly fight and argue.
There's also the issue that I wasn't safe at school either.
It's not the only abuse we endured - but it was the worst traumatically speaking for me, mostly because I tried to shield them from it as much as possible.
"Fair enough "dad" did that to you - but step dad hit me for this trivial reason" Yeah, but I spent most of those years confined to my bedroom aside from the access visits with "dad" because step dad and I would constantly fight and argue.
There's also the issue that I wasn't safe at school either.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@HootyTheNightOwl wwll you should remind her its not a contest and everyone reacts differently to trauma. If she continues to use your old name dont answer when she does she will soon learn.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@eMortal what leads you to believe it sailed.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@eMortal then your opinion..so no i dont believe that is so..you could be in your 80s/90s and still fall in love..just this week i heard if a lovely couple that met in a complex at 86 and were besotted with each other and got married..so no i dont accept that.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Coralmist then make sure you put them right hunni. I used to get that but not anymore.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@BEENOV im assuming you meant to say that you like them which means you dont. Is that right?
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@BEENOV 😂
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@scorpiolovedeep well i can atest to you being none of those and in fact very respectful and a deep thinker and in no way rude.
TallMtnMedic · M
TallMtnMedic · M
@Primnproper I never said, or thought, I was a bad guy, just Im not a nice one.
No male wants to be relegated to "nice".
No male wants to be relegated to "nice".
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@TallMtnMedic why not, do you prefer to be viewed as bad boys, does that not just feed into stereotype egos, which to women are not so attractive. I dont know I'm just curious.
TallMtnMedic · M
@Primnproper No, I said I want go be known as a good man, theres a difference.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
Well lap it up dont put them right..maybe you are.
HumanEarth · F
I don't care what they think about me
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Thevy29 ok duly noted! 😁
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Pinkstarburst women especially are good at masking that..👍