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Do you ignore or answer your private messages?

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Fairydust · F Best Comment
Ignore most of them, delete them.

Some have long conversations with themselves 🤣🤣🤣
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
@Fairydust "They should form a band!" That was in like 1992/1993 maybe 1994. He is too old now, plus his movie career was starting off and about to become a big star
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
@Fairydust Laters, enjoyed laughing with you. Catch you on the flip side
Fairydust · F
@HumanEarth night 💤

Ashly · 26-30, F
I usually reply to everyone, once I see their intentions or they can’t keep a conversation going then I stop responding 😅
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Hanginginthere me? No way lol

Is that a good thing or a bad thing? 😂🫣
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@Ashly you seem cool so it’s a good thing
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Hanginginthere thank you 🥹
At least I’m popular somewhere 😂
DrWatson · 70-79, M
If they are from a complete stranger (someone who I have never seen posting or responding in public) I usually ignore them.

If they are from people I consider friends, of course I answer them.

If they are from people I have seen here but have not PMed in the past, it would depend on what they have to say.
Dusty101 · F
@DrWatson completely agree 👍
scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M
Same here , well said @DrWatson
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Depends on the message and the one sending it. I do the same thing for text messages and FB😒
TrashCat · M
I'll say this. If there is a dick, my response is faster
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@TrashCat I just can’t with you 😂
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I'm happy to chat with most people.
There are always the exception.
For example the seemingly endless 'women' who want you on another website so they can try and scam you for money.
Or the real 'oddity' wanting to draw you into their (hopefully) fantasy world of depravity.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
I reply to friends and to well written notes from newbies. Not to “hey” or “wanna see my wife naked” or that kind of thing.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@Harmonium1923 ill never get the guys that get off by other men seeing their spouse naked
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
I ignore the "hi, how are u" and dick-pic pms.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Thinkerbell That explains why you never answer me. 🤔
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
@Degbeme

You must have about 100 alts...
Degbeme · 70-79, M
akindheart · 61-69, F
i amswer every message i receive
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`ll answer any that I get.
Have always answered everyone other than if they were rude or condescending, or asking of fetishes I'm not curious, if they took time to write me, I answer, but I do assume some conversations may be short.
Cat2001 · 22-25, F
I try to reply to all my messages, but people that send me a one word message like Hi or ask for nude photo's after 2 - 3 messages goes to my trash box.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I generally reply, don't get too many of them.
CommandLine · 56-60, M
I answer all, but I dont get many to be honest.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@CommandLine I don’t get many either
RenFur · 70-79, M
99% answer. What about you?
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@RenFur 5 percent get ignored
Answer unless the message is really stupid
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
I ignore 90% of them
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I always answer messages from friends :)

With others, it depends on the content of the messages ... if they are politely worded and arouse my interest, I reply and wait to see what happens... and I ignore the few messages that cross my personal boundaries.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@RobinPhoenix makes sense
Benjago · 41-45, M
I'll answer more often than I ignore.
Straylight · 31-35, F
Depends what it says.
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
Answer them
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
On my phone all unlisted number calls get ignored unless I know I'm expecting a government department call. Then I look at the number id - if it's from out of Australia instantly blocked unless I know I'm expecting a call from a particular country. Then if the number matches one already in my phone contact list. Then which part of Australia is the call coming from if not, If the number isn't known, and it's from interstate it's 99.9 percent a spam call and I block the number.

On here, I might get 2 or 3 pm's a year.

Email's are like phone calls - if there's even the slightest suspicion, suspect it to be a scam.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I answer the ones I know most quickly, but as long as they arent rude or talking sexually upfront I reply eventually. I get a lot of messages so I cannot resoond fast to everyone.
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
I am very selective in my inbox 😊

I have some friends I will message with, but generally, I prefer to keep my comments and interactions out in the open
Fullmetal · 46-50, M
@ImpeccablyImperfect speaking of that, I solved your problem, read your pm's lol!!😉
Pretzel · 61-69, M
jeancolby · 31-35, F
Answer, most are looking for details of my fights/ wrestling matches.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@jeancolby do you make money off of that?
jeancolby · 31-35, F
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@jeancolby figured that much
I reply to most. But if we haven't had previous conversation, I look over the profile and then decide. The decision is mostly based on how I feel at that moment
hunkalove · 61-69, M
On here I answer most of them. On Facebook I ignore them.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@hunkalove but isn’t Facebook consist of people you know personally?
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@Hanginginthere No. I don’t pay much attention to Facebook. I think I might have 4 or 5 friends there. I belong to groups that interest me.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@hunkalove ahh gotcha
I only reply to those I’ve interacted with on public posts.

If it’s some random stranger, I usually leave it unread.
I ignore them if we aren't already friends out here first.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl maybe it’s better that way?
@Hanginginthere It works well for me. Usually, I tend to get people demanding to know why I speak Dutch or people who want to say one last "Good bye" before they block me.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl yeh theres some strange people on here
Mudkip · 31-35, M
I answered my first one and it started good. But then she got into some weird stuff and left her on read lol
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@Mudkip the nerve of her!
Raaii · 22-25, F
[c=800000] I hardly check messages these days
Actually I don't get much texts anywhere
It's all fine [/c]
exexec · 61-69, C
I almost always reply, even if it is to tell them not to contact me again.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@exexec hmm
It depends if it’s someone I actually feel like talking to.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic fair enough
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
Ignore/block/delete usually as I get maybe 3 a year and they're always scam/spam.
SW-User
Depends on who it is from
If I don't know them I ignore it
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@SW-User fair enough
It depends on the content. "Wassssup" or "hey there" will get ignored every time.
icedsky · 51-55, M
Ignore most the obvious catfish. Troll a couple. Talk with the people I believe to be real.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
No one ever really messages me here
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@Cigarguy101 same here
Ignore almost all of them.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
I usually answer them.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@Hanginginthere I try to be nice when I answer them.
SW-User
Depends on who the user is and how they approach me
MrGomco · 36-40, M
I don't receive messages, so I don't know.
AdaXI · 41-45, T
All depends what it is, like if someone I've never seen before randomly sends me a ''hi'' message then I'm really not gonna waste my time replying but if a friend sends me a message asking me how I've been keeping once a blue moon well I'm not gonna be ignorant and ignore them but yeah I'd a say it's a 50/50.
乂º◡º乂
You can message on SW?!?! 😯
Ignore most or leave on unread
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I try to answer them.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Ignore mostly
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Depends who from
Teirdalin · 31-35
I ignore like half.

 
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