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Fairydust · F Best Comment
Ignore most of them, delete them.

Some have long conversations with themselves 🤣🤣🤣
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Fairydust

My theory is that I get them after I make a comment in a large FB group like "Just for Jokes", where people don't know each other.

But now I am curious about something. The ones I get all pass themselves off as beautiful young women. What version do you get?
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@Fairydust 🥰 🫂

acupaday · 46-50, F
…both. I answer some messages when I see them. Others I take my time getting to. And then there’s those I full on archive with zero intent of giving any attention to. All depends on the person behind them and the intent of the words put out there. And honestly depends a bit on my receptiveness to communication at that moment.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Felina · F
I like my conversations out in the open. If certain things I express or say offend then I don’t mind being blocked , not at all because that’s when I know who the good ones are … those who stayed 😌😁
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exchrist · 31-35
I get to them. In general it matters very little to me.
Ashly · 26-30, F
I usually reply to everyone, once I see their intentions or they can’t keep a conversation going then I stop responding 😅
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Moneyonmymind me? No way lol

Is that a good thing or a bad thing? 😂🫣
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Ashly you seem cool so it’s a good thing
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Moneyonmymind thank you 🥹
At least I’m popular somewhere 😂
LilPrincess · 46-50, F
Depends on the message and the one sending it. I do the same thing for text messages and FB😒
DrWatson · 70-79, M
If they are from a complete stranger (someone who I have never seen posting or responding in public) I usually ignore them.

If they are from people I consider friends, of course I answer them.

If they are from people I have seen here but have not PMed in the past, it would depend on what they have to say.
Dusty101 · F
@DrWatson completely agree 👍
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Same here , well said @DrWatson
akindheart · 61-69, F
i amswer every message i receive
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`ll answer any that I get.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I generally reply, don't get too many of them.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I'm happy to chat with most people.
There are always the exception.
For example the seemingly endless 'women' who want you on another website so they can try and scam you for money.
Or the real 'oddity' wanting to draw you into their (hopefully) fantasy world of depravity.
SW-User
Have always answered everyone other than if they were rude or condescending, or asking of fetishes I'm not curious, if they took time to write me, I answer, but I do assume some conversations may be short.
CommandLine · 56-60, M
I answer all, but I dont get many to be honest.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@CommandLine I don’t get many either
SW-User
99% answer. What about you?
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@SW-User 5 percent get ignored
Pretzel · 61-69, M
@AbbySvenz so that explains why I never hear from you

you don't call
you don't write
you don't send me Christmas cards :)
AbbySvenz · F
It’s not even Christmas yet @Pretzel
Pretzel · 61-69, M
@AbbySvenz still waiting for one from 3 years ago...I guess the mailman's dog ate it? :)
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
I reply to friends and to well written notes from newbies. Not to “hey” or “wanna see my wife naked” or that kind of thing.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Harmonium1923 ill never get the guys that get off by other men seeing their spouse naked
I always answer messages from friends :)

With others, it depends on the content of the messages ... if they are politely worded and arouse my interest, I reply and wait to see what happens... and I ignore the few messages that cross my personal boundaries.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@RobinPhoenix makes sense
Straylight · 31-35, F
Depends what it says.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
yyz123 · 51-55, F
Answer them
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
Answer them
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I don’t answer messages from young women.

Men typically don’t pm me.
solitaire · 41-45, F
@Adogslife Why don't you answer messages from young women?
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
I am very selective in my inbox 😊

I have some friends I will message with, but generally, I prefer to keep my comments and interactions out in the open
Fullmetal · 46-50, M
@ImpeccablyImperfect speaking of that, I solved your problem, read your pm's lol!!😉
SW-User
I reply to most. But if we haven't had previous conversation, I look over the profile and then decide. The decision is mostly based on how I feel at that moment
jeancolby · 31-35, F
Answer, most are looking for details of my fights/ wrestling matches.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@jeancolby do you make money off of that?
jeancolby · 31-35, F
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@jeancolby figured that much
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I ignore 90% of them
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I only reply to those I’ve interacted with on public posts.

If it’s some random stranger, I usually leave it unread.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
On my phone all unlisted number calls get ignored unless I know I'm expecting a government department call. Then I look at the number id - if it's from out of Australia instantly blocked unless I know I'm expecting a call from a particular country. Then if the number matches one already in my phone contact list. Then which part of Australia is the call coming from if not, If the number isn't known, and it's from interstate it's 99.9 percent a spam call and I block the number.

On here, I might get 2 or 3 pm's a year.

Email's are like phone calls - if there's even the slightest suspicion, suspect it to be a scam.
exexec · 70-79, C
I almost always reply, even if it is to tell them not to contact me again.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@exexec hmm
Raaii · 22-25, F
I hardly check messages these days
Actually I don't get much texts anywhere
It's all fine
hunkalove · 61-69, M
On here I answer most of them. On Facebook I ignore them.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@hunkalove but isn’t Facebook consist of people you know personally?
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@Moneyonmymind No. I don’t pay much attention to Facebook. I think I might have 4 or 5 friends there. I belong to groups that interest me.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@hunkalove ahh gotcha
666Maggotz · F
It depends if it’s someone I actually feel like talking to.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@666Maggotz fair enough
I ignore them if we aren't already friends out here first.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl maybe it’s better that way?
@Moneyonmymind It works well for me. Usually, I tend to get people demanding to know why I speak Dutch or people who want to say one last "Good bye" before they block me.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl yeh theres some strange people on here
Mudkip · 31-35, M
I answered my first one and it started good. But then she got into some weird stuff and left her on read lol
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Mudkip the nerve of her!
SW-User
Depends on who it is from
If I don't know them I ignore it
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@SW-User fair enough
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
I usually answer them.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@Moneyonmymind I try to be nice when I answer them.
It depends on the content. "Wassssup" or "hey there" will get ignored every time.
SW-User
Depends on who the user is and how they approach me
MrGomco · 36-40, M
I don't receive messages, so I don't know.
Cat2001 · 22-25, F
I try to reply to all my messages, but people that send me a one word message like Hi or ask for nude photo's after 2 - 3 messages goes to my trash box.
solitaire · 41-45, F
I ignore mostly and sometimes I even tell people I am not interested in chatting
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I answer the ones I know most quickly, but as long as they arent rude or talking sexually upfront I reply eventually. I get a lot of messages so I cannot resoond fast to everyone.
You can message on SW?!?! 😯
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
No one ever really messages me here
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Cigarguy101 same here
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Depends who from
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I try to answer them.
TrashCat · M
I'll say this. If there is a dick, my response is faster
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@TrashCat I just can’t with you 😂
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I very rarely get any messages to answer anyway
SW-User
@Justenjoyit same here... maybe if we had blonde hair and titties it would help 😁
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@SW-User I like it like that, nice and peaceful lol
rachelsj · 22-25, F

 
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