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deadgerbil · 26-30, M
That I play basketball bc of my height
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Desertteddesert · 26-30, M
@HannahSky Ok
HannahSky · F
@Desertteddesert ok, maybe you are 🤷🏼♀️ I really don't know
BeefySenpie · M
@deadgerbil How’s your NBA career going son?
Blondily · F
I think I might appear unfriendly in public places.
Like at a grocery store I'm usually quiet but other times I'm very chatty.
It just depends, when and where.🤷🏼♀️
Like at a grocery store I'm usually quiet but other times I'm very chatty.
It just depends, when and where.🤷🏼♀️
Desertteddesert · 26-30, M
@NativePortlander1970 You look like someone ppl that get shit on. Right on the face lmao
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akindheart · 61-69, F
i am very nice buti come across as no nonsense too. i do have a big heart.
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
@Degbeme really Degsy... You expect AKH to do as she is told oh lord 🤦🤦🤦🤦
akindheart · 61-69, F
@braveheart21 we have been friends too long!
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
@akindheart oh..... You don't want to be friends anymore 😞😞 I'm sorry if I've upset you..
LadyGrace · 70-79
That I'm a pushover because I'm nice and kind. I also noticed that people treat you a lot differently, when you're older. But someday they'll be older and see how that feels.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
Strangers often assume I'm helpless or even lost when I'm out in public by myself because I use a wheelchair, lol.
I was grabbing some butter with no issues the other day and some lady asked me if she needed to get someone for me. I was like no thanks??
I was grabbing some butter with no issues the other day and some lady asked me if she needed to get someone for me. I was like no thanks??
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SwampFlower lmao you grabbed butter with no issues 🥹
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
@MartinTheFirst I never have issues grabbing butter 😌
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Yes, here's a weird one. That I "should" like to hookup with hot random people because of my good looks. I don't get that one. What does it matter how I look, I'm still demisexual and I hate random hookups with strangers. Always have always will.
It's like some people can't understand that not everyone is into that.
It's like some people can't understand that not everyone is into that.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@Queendragonfly Just so you know, I'm laughing that people have the expectation, not that you don't live up to it. You do you, and don't let anybody tell you what you should like.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@LordShadowfire Thanks, I have heard such weird comments and questions in my days 😂
The guys hated me because I didn't wanna hook around and the girls hated me because I made them look bad for hooking around. When all I ever asked was for everyone to mind their own God damn business.
The guys hated me because I didn't wanna hook around and the girls hated me because I made them look bad for hooking around. When all I ever asked was for everyone to mind their own God damn business.
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
I have facial piercings and visible tattoos. Even at 44, I’m younger than most of my customers. Many of them are surprised when they find out that I’m the store owner, or that I actually know what I’m talking about. Especially when they learn that I’m also the “repair person”.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@QueenOfTheNerds
You’re amazing! I like you.
You’re amazing! I like you.
PicturesOfABetterTomorrow · 41-45, M
@QueenOfTheNerds Good for you. That is definitely something to be proud of regardless of the assumptions of fools.
Elessar · 26-30, M
That I'm pìssed off when I'm actually just slightly irritated 😪
bijouxbroussard · F
@LordShadowfire Yes ! I can be lost in thought and someone will ask, "are you okay ? You look really angry.” 😅
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@mindstruggle For me, I've got that thick Neanderthal brow going on. It casts my eyes in shadow when my head is down, which it often is when I'm lost in thought.
JovialMoose · 51-55, M
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@JovialMoose That's too funny. I've mostly given up on asking people at Home Depot for help, because all they do is pull out their phones and open up the app. I can do that myself.

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Calm under pressure
Soft spoken
Thoughtful in my approach to certain situations
Quiet
People tend to think I'm shy or have zero self confidence...ha! No Wonder I keep surprising people
Soft spoken
Thoughtful in my approach to certain situations
Quiet
People tend to think I'm shy or have zero self confidence...ha! No Wonder I keep surprising people
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
I don't care what people think.... My actions speaks louder !
People consider me good man that's what I heard from others mouth!
People consider me good man that's what I heard from others mouth!
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@AngelKrish
Do you consider yourself a good man?
Do you consider yourself a good man?
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
@mindstruggle i am good because I don't like conflicts, nor like cheating, lying or betraying to anyone!
Often I got cheated ,lied and betrayed!
It doesn't mean I am weak!
But that's how life is.... people do this to others...
Often I got cheated ,lied and betrayed!
It doesn't mean I am weak!
But that's how life is.... people do this to others...
PicturesOfABetterTomorrow · 41-45, M
bizarrely I have had random people assume my politics are far right because I have a bunch of military surplus stuff.
A good friend ran a surplus store for like 5 or 6 years and where else am I going to get leather boots for $25 a winter coat good down to -45C for 40 and a backpack that is practically indestructible and waterproof for 40 dollars.
Not going to spend 500 on the coat and 500 on the civilian versions of the rucksack just because it only comes in green from my friend's shop. lol
A good friend ran a surplus store for like 5 or 6 years and where else am I going to get leather boots for $25 a winter coat good down to -45C for 40 and a backpack that is practically indestructible and waterproof for 40 dollars.
Not going to spend 500 on the coat and 500 on the civilian versions of the rucksack just because it only comes in green from my friend's shop. lol
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
That I’m sweet and wimpy, but I am tough and can be nasty when necessary.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Jeephikelove
😏💕
😏💕
JasminD · 22-25, F
I think that I appear as a party queen, stumbling out of each and every nightclub at unsociable hours, but also like someone that is an Insta Influencer.
Doesn't appeal to me in the slightest!
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Doesn't appeal to me in the slightest!
🫶🏽
Desertteddesert · 26-30, M
@mindstruggle She could settle for a scrappy
JasminD · 22-25, F
@mindstruggle The avatar isn't me - she's got better hair! - but a pretty good representation of me. But, yes, in real life, I am all hair and smiles...
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🫶🏽
Desertteddesert · 26-30, M
@JasminD Too bad for you g... I ain't I to liars
NerdySoph · 26-30, F
People assume i'm fragile and gentle. Quite the opposite, i'm tomboy-ish in character but with feelings too deep for my own good.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@NerdySoph
To me you’re nice and gentle! 😌💕
To me you’re nice and gentle! 😌💕
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I honestly don`t know really. 🤔
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Degbeme
You must be transparent.
You must be transparent.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@mindstruggle Nah.... pretty much what you see is me.
Umile · 41-45, F
I have an RBF.
Most assume that I am mean.
But, in reality, their own best friend might betray them before I do.
Funny.
Most assume that I am mean.
But, in reality, their own best friend might betray them before I do.
Funny.
Confident and outspoken. Im shy and speak when spoken to.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@V00doo
Idk but I actually see you as a shy person.
Idk but I actually see you as a shy person.
@mindstruggle I think a lot of it is because I have to force myself to not be at work. I feel safer there
WhateverWorks · 36-40
🤔 I have magenta hair and a number of tattoos. I’ve lived a colorful life, but I don’t like to be around people that are into substances as a regular thing. People also assume I’m super liberal, but I have a number of views that aren’t particularly popular on the left.
BeefySenpie · M
Maybe I’m smart because I wear glasses
Iwillwait · M
Not sure, I've never asked anyone that.
Depends on how I'm dressed. If I'm in my work-out garb, I look rough.
Otherwise I'm always business casual.
Depends on how I'm dressed. If I'm in my work-out garb, I look rough.
Otherwise I'm always business casual.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
They think I'm a sweet grandma because of my grey hair and quiet demeanor.
But I have no kids, no grandkids, and I am definitely not sweet all the time. I have a sharp tongue if you come at me, and I am not afraid to just never talk to someone again if they continuously disrespect me.
But I have no kids, no grandkids, and I am definitely not sweet all the time. I have a sharp tongue if you come at me, and I am not afraid to just never talk to someone again if they continuously disrespect me.
beermeplease · M
i come across as a bit of a flirt with some ladies...but i just like to compliment them where credit is due...i like to think of myself as a good guy and a gentleman...and not a flirt.... but i guess i come across as one
GlitterEater · 36-40, F
I look pretty young so everyone assumes I'm a student at the school I work at. 💅
bijouxbroussard · F
People have always told me that they were surprised that I was "so nice".Apparently I don’t look very approachable.
I know I tend not to smile (RBF).
I know I tend not to smile (RBF).
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@bijouxbroussard I have the dude equivalent.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard
I feel you. I kind of like it when some people on here tell me I’m sweet. People irl often judges me cause I do have RBF too until they get to know me.
I feel you. I kind of like it when some people on here tell me I’m sweet. People irl often judges me cause I do have RBF too until they get to know me.

SW-User
Stuck up , entitled ,even rich 😂 , I’m completely the opposite ( I wish I had money tho 👀)
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@SW-User
Lol same. 👀 you must look expensive.
Lol same. 👀 you must look expensive.
People see me bratting or trolling around here and think that I don't care.
Under the surface, I care more than most people think I do...
Under the surface, I care more than most people think I do...
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@HootyTheNightOwl
I don’t see you trolling tho. 💛
Maybe sometimes you’re just having fun, but not trolling.
I don’t see you trolling tho. 💛
Maybe sometimes you’re just having fun, but not trolling.
@mindstruggle Sometimes, I will deliberately troll for the block - though I prefer it to come across as witty rather than being outright mean and rude to people.
faithfulhusband · C
im pretty much exactly as advertised
TabloidMan · M
That I won't get angry.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@TabloidMan
Awwe we all get angry at some point. You must be a really nice person.
Awwe we all get angry at some point. You must be a really nice person.
TabloidMan · M
@mindstruggle I do get angry.But the fact that I think how others would feel about my actions before I do anything is a great weakness from my side. That's why though I am angry,I won't show it.Like they take it for granted sometimes.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
They used to think I was a big metal fan because I dressed in black a lot. It wasn't true at that time.
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
Yes, I have white hair but am not old ( you would have to be around me or talk to me on the phone)
Raaii · 22-25, F
actually there has been a lot
in the past even someone commented m abt how I don't like a student but all my life I've been a student only, that's like the most important achievement to me, I couldn't believe tht I look like an ignorant
in the past even someone commented m abt how I don't like a student but all my life I've been a student only, that's like the most important achievement to me, I couldn't believe tht I look like an ignorant
that i am stupid because i am cute, but also i have a scar on my face so ppl don’t even know what to think of me rly.
SinlessOnslaught · M
i don’t wanna take over the ops post and make it all about me.. @SinlessOnslaught
my family already thinks im nuts 🤣 @LordShadowfire
my family already thinks im nuts 🤣 @LordShadowfire
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@deathfairy Isn't that what family is for, though?
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
The first impression I often give people is that I'm a big, dumb lug.
Well, honestly, I am a big, dumb lug, but I have what some have called a dry wit, and people are often surprised by that.
Well, honestly, I am a big, dumb lug, but I have what some have called a dry wit, and people are often surprised by that.

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I look like a caveman, so people probably assume i don't Netflix and chill that often, ... and they're right!!!
Heartlander · 80-89, M
:) A black friend who worked in an upper level government position often joked about how many of his white co-workers asked if he knew anyone who did laundry or housekeeping.

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People who don’t know me often assume that I’m a stuck up b*tch but I’m really not all that lol
sodaa ·
im snobbish. true
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
SinlessOnslaught · M
Everybody always assumes I'm the manager of some shit.
Iwillwait · M
@SinlessOnslaught Lol! I get that too. Wherever I'm standing, I'm working there. Lol!
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Iwillwait Even if I do work somewhere, everybody thinks I'm the boss.
Iwillwait · M
@SinlessOnslaught You got BOSS vibes.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
a snob
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
People tell me I’m calm all the time. Which is news to me.
Some days I’m sure I’m one fuckening away from a heart attack.
Some days I’m sure I’m one fuckening away from a heart attack.
Umile · 41-45, F
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
People assume I'm dumb
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@DeluxedEdition I did too at first ngl but I think you're smart
NinaTina · 26-30, F
That i know Karate
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@NinaTina
That’s okay. So what’s the answer? 👀
That’s okay. So what’s the answer? 👀
NinaTina · 26-30, F
@mindstruggle they assume im stuck up
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Torsten · 36-40, M
hmm I dont know. I have been called a skin head several times because I am bald (yeah some people are that dumb).
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Torsten
I’m sorry people call you that. :(
I’m sorry people call you that. :(
Torsten · 36-40, M
@mindstruggle thanks but others opinions dont really matter to me. I just ask them how they came to that conclusion and every time so far, they just make a fool out of themselves
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
I like making decorative wreaths. I'm good with flower arrangements.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@LordShadowfire
That’s cute! You probably have a pretty garden.
That’s cute! You probably have a pretty garden.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, MVIP
@mindstruggle I will again this coming year. I neglected it for a while.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@LordShadowfire
I’m looking forward to it! 🙂
I’m looking forward to it! 🙂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
People think I am confident because they tell me I am beautiful. I don’t see myself that way, I think I am ugly most times.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
that im incredibly sexy and hawt
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
What about you @mindstruggle?
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696
I have an RBF, most people irl think I’m mean until they get to know me.
Also, I just heard that the guys where I’m currently working thought I’m lesbian. 😭 idk whyyyy
I have an RBF, most people irl think I’m mean until they get to know me.
Also, I just heard that the guys where I’m currently working thought I’m lesbian. 😭 idk whyyyy
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@mindstruggle awww I am sorry about the guys thinking that. I can’t imagine anyone thinking you’re mean though.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696
Thank you, you’re sweet. 🥹💕
Thank you, you’re sweet. 🥹💕
Desertteddesert · 26-30, M
That I have a giant dick!
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