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exexec · 70-79, C
Totally, madly in love with her
MellyMel22 · F
@exexec That’s great!

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Yeah I was besotted. We were married 18 years and still would be if he hadn't died.
MellyMel22 · F
@PatientlyWaiting25 I’m so sorry ❤
@PatientlyWaiting25 So sorry. 🫂
TexChik · F
Absolutely yes!
NCCindy · 36-40, F
Yes. Deeply. 😞
MellyMel22 · F
Lostpoet · M
I was never married but I've been truly in love several times in my life.
bookerdana · M
@Lostpoet samesies

QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
Very much so.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
In love? It felt different from when I had been in love before. There was an inevitability to it that I had never felt before. And while I certainly planned to ask her to marry me, I was waiting until we'd been dating for a while, at least longer than 6 months.

I suppose I was in love in the ways that mattered.
MellyMel22 · F
@DunningKruger That’s interesting 😌 Thank you for sharing.
gummybears · F
Yes and still am
within · 36-40, M
MellyMel22 · F
@within I’m sorry 😞🤍
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
I was sort of in love, i was less in love but more focused on that she will be a great mother of my kids, a very smart, educated perason.
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
@Chiefjustice For me romantic loved sucked the life and soul out of me. This is where i had a really hard time.
MellyMel22 · F
@Chiefjustice Sorry to hear that.
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
@MellyMel22 thanks! Didnt know better lol
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
I was married a long time ago and no I wasn’t in love with him as much as I was an ex. We tried, we failed, we got a divorce.
MellyMel22 · F
@RebelRaven I’m sorry it didn’t work out.. Thank you for sharing 🤍
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
@MellyMel22 I learned something a few years ago and I’m glad it didn’t work out, plus he was an alcoholic.
MellyMel22 · F
@RebelRaven I know first hand living with an alcoholic can be a complete nightmare.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Don’t mind me 👀
lissah · 36-40, F
The first time i was.

The second time i dont think so. We got married and went to Vegas for a week. Then i filed for divorce the day we returned.
MellyMel22 · F
@lissah I’m sorry to hear they didn’t go well.
lissah · 36-40, F
@MellyMel22 It's all good. I'm better off without either of them.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Yes. Still am, even though we're estranged now.
I was groomed so no
MellyMel22 · F
@PepsiColaP I’ve never been married. My children’s dad proposed 3xs and sort of bullied me into wearing the ring the 3rd I think for men to see where I bartended. He told me it could be a long engagement and he pretty much guilted me into it.

I know I was w/him a very long time, but I knew I didn’t want to marry him and feel even more stuck some day. He turned out to be a horrible and abusive POS. So I’m glad we didn’t get married like he wanted.
@MellyMel22 im very glad you didnt too! I highly doubt i would ever marry again knowing how very difficult and financially/emotionally draining it can be to get out of
MellyMel22 · F
@PepsiColaP I really can’t blame you. That’s another reason I never wanted to bother. People kept telling me you have kids with him, why not. That’s just not something I can do. I think my gut would decide for me in the future, but I’m not one of those who wants to just to.
I thought I was

You?
@MellyMel22 You chose wisely
@MellyMel22 I hate to say it, but I think you were the smart one.
MellyMel22 · F
@LadyGrace Thanks. I think it was more of my gut. I didn’t follow it meeting him and I wasn’t ignoring it again.
tfan123 · 46-50, M
Yes I was and still am.
4thdimensiondream · 70-79, M
I believe there are many stages of love. I think it means different things to diff people. But to answer your question absolutely was in love when I proposed.
MellyMel22 · F
@4thdimensiondream Thanks for sharing!
I thought I was but clearly looking back I wasn’t.
MellyMel22 · F
@QuietReverie I really wish I did too.
@MellyMel22

I should have said no, I’ve been engaged twice, first one I called it off, then I married the next one, big mistake 😅
MellyMel22 · F
@QuietReverie Well at least you only regret one of the two!
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
I truly believed I was, and would like to think we were. But you know how things can go. 🫢

On a brighter note I think we are in a much better place at the moment than in the last fifteen years or so.
MellyMel22 · F
@Ambroseguy80 Well that’s something!
GoFish ·
no.. that's why it took me until now to come to terms with it 🤐😳
GoFish ·
@MellyMel22 some are some aren't .. it's harder to read some things than others 🤐
MellyMel22 · F
@GoFish I agree.
GoFish ·
@MellyMel22 ay ☺
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Define love. Seriously. I had known her for 15 years, since freshman year of high school for both of us. We were good friends, very compatible, very comfortable sharing anything with each other. But had never dated. Neither of us gave the other that lusty spark that besots adolescents who chase it, thinking it is love.

Then I had a date cancel on me at the last minute for a party my boss was giving, I asked her if she would fill in. Our genitals caught up with our minds and hearts. We eloped a month later.
MellyMel22 · F
@dancingtongue Thank you for sharing 🙂
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
@MellyMel22 BTW it lasted 43 years until cancer took her.
MellyMel22 · F
@dancingtongue I’m so sorry to hear that 😔

 
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