I’m curious..

If you are/were married, were you truly in love with them when you proposed/said yes?

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Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

I was sort of in love, i was less in love but more focused on that she will be a great mother of my kids, a very smart, educated perason.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice Thanks for sharing!

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 You welcome! There is a huge difference in partnership compatibility and motherhood. We weren't very compatible, i thought the differences will compliment, but those turned out to be a nightmare instead.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice I believe that can happen quite often.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 unfortunately. Oddly enough some people had warned me. To be honest i believe i fall in love after getting married, in the honeymopn phase of life. However, as time went on 3 yrs into it after my first i felt i had a huge misatke.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice That sounds really rough.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 yes unfortunately very rough.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@Chiefjustice For me romantic loved sucked the life and soul out of me. This is where i had a really hard time.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice Sorry to hear that.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 thanks! Didnt know better lol