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ABCDEF7 · M
Life is a challenge, accept it.

Focus on your goal, not on problem or people creating problems.

Be positive, depression is a state of mind. You should be deciding how should feel, not the circumstances or people.

Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@ABCDEF7 Y'all are so kind to me. I feel good when I read this, thank you ^^
ABCDEF7 · M
@Mishi "Do not pray for an easy life, pray for strength to endure a difficult one." - Bruce Lee

Docdon23 · M
I live in the US, and believe me, there are many people unhappy with their lives right now. I find myself the best way is to associate with positive, loving, kind people--even if it means separating from toxic family members. Of course I do understand, if you rely on them for food or shelter or living that is tougher. I also find that if i focus on being a good and loving person, and accept others as being how they are because they have lived their own unique life with their own story and struggles, that helps. But, my heart goes out to you. The world in general needs more love, acceptance, kindness, understanding...
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@Docdon23 Thank you, it helps alot ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ
Docdon23 · M
@Mishi Sometimes just talking to others helps, connecting, being listened to--and also realizing that you are not alone in your struggles. Love and compassion, kindness and caring are the answers!!
Coralmist · 41-45, F
I lived in first world but with a toxic, sociopath cruel mother. My life has been a nightmare. I have chronic PTSD as an adult from years of threats, gaslighting, control, extreme ridicule etc.
She would rage so much and once threatened to kill me. It is extremely hard just getting by day to day, I feel nonhuman.
I am unemployed so things are very tight financially. People say just take baby steps to find joy or confidence but this affected every part of life, not only work or only dating etc. So it feels overwhelming try ing to heal all of it. But I'm going to keep on, day by day even a little.
My heart goes out to you🌷
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@Coralmist It's easier said than done, I have tried and it's hard to be happy. I feel you and I wish best for you ^^
Mudkip · 31-35, M
I've been through similar things with my family as well(one person in particular). Keeping your distance has worked for me until everything settles down.
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@Mudkip You're right, thanks for advice ^^
Mudkip · 31-35, M
@Mishi distract yourself from all that, hopefully everything turns out well for you
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@Mudkip I will try to keep myself focused on achieving goals, thank you for being kind ^^
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@YoMomma I'm happy for you ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ Yes, we do have libraries here and guess what I was also thinking to do the same to escape toxicity for a while hehe ~
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@YoMomma yes, you're right :p
YoMomma ·
@Mishi ☺ my hub named her after the pony he had when he was a lil kid/boy 😅
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@YoMomma aww this is cute ^^ our coco is a stray cat we adopted him when he was only a few weeks old, now he's a big boy haha 😹
Mordechai · 31-35, M
It's tough for me too, I use that feeling to push through to better times later. I believe things will turn around for you though, you got this 🙌
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@Mordechai Thank you for kind words. I wish best for you as well ^^
TheYawnArchive · 46-50, M
Some of the most wonderful people emerge from bad circumstances like that, I wish you well, for the way away from the problems and better times to become reality.
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@TheYawnArchive Thank you, I appreciate ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ
YoMomma ·
My late teens were rough too, my mom gave me hell .. i ran away.. even tho america is considered a first world country there are poor people here as well and my family is among them .. anyway i ran away.. it’s not safe for everyone (a lot of run aways become victims or killed but i survived probably because im more wary than most people but also maybe God protected me too idk ) sorry your family is giving you hell.. it’s hard when one is young and don't have much options .. do you have other family you can stay with or are they also the hellish type?
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@YoMomma I'm happy you made out ^^ My relatives are also kinda toxic so it's no no, I only have myself to rely on and I'm trying to make things right for me. I appreciate your response ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ
YoMomma ·
@Mishi ok i married a trucker and we traveled the country till he retired and we live a mile away from my family 😅 maybe escape temporarily from your family by getting a job outside the house or spending time at the library or something just to get away from them idk .. do you guys have public libraries in your country or is that not a thing there?
I'm sorry to hear this :( If you want to talk further, my DM is open.
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@wishforthenight Thanks, I appreciate you ^^
@Mishi You're welcome. Feel free to DM me :)
in10RjFox · M
You just need to realise that you are a free bird and that you need to flutter your wings and fly off. Nothing will change in life if you keep remaining where you are. Take incidences of girls eloping from home for good and face the consequences all along in life. So get out and start rescuing people from life instead of waiting for some one to rescue you.
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@in10RjFox Thank you for that, I needed it.
in10RjFox · M
@Mishi oops just corrected the type.. not resume you but rescue you.
Holden · 31-35, M
Hello. And I'm sorry you have to deal with that :( .
Somerset · 31-35, M
I think I know how you feel
Lostpoet · M
Things aren't easy in my world either.
wackidywack · 26-30
Pleased t make your acquaintance
dale74 · M
@Mishii live in USA there are struggle and strife all over where are you what 3rd world country
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@dale74 I wish best for you ^^ I live in Pak
Sayana · 22-25, F
Then dance and sing to change your mood or get a pet Cat 🔅

Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@Sayana I've a cat ^^ are you a kpop stan too ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ
Sayana · 22-25, F
@Mishi Yes 😬
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Hi 👋 🎈 🌹
Mishi · 22-25, FNew
@anoderod55 Hi ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ

 
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